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Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by MaryExy
Overall personality... I don't associate it with intelligence or sense of humor. Those are specific categories that I don't look at first.
Well said
05/12/2011
Contributor: Pablo F Lleras Pablo F Lleras
i figure i say looks but that just caught my eye, i fell in love with her personality and humor and every aspect about her, but her looks caught my eye first.
05/17/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
looks
05/25/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
Overall personality. Kindness, sense of humor, how much I get along with them. Those all are part of what attracts me to someone. Looks come in last place for me
05/25/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Personality is a big one, but it's going to be how a person looks that makes me walk across the room for them.
05/25/2011
Contributor: BabyL0ve BabyL0ve
Sense of humor. I love to laugh. Looks can go away, but their personality will stay much longer
05/26/2011
Contributor: Inwitari Inwitari
If I see a guy that's good looking I just kinda think "meh". For me it's a combination of two factors- sense of humor and intelligence. I like funny guys and smart guys but if a guy is both that REALLY attracts me.
05/26/2011
Contributor: AlaskanBeauty AlaskanBeauty
Intellegence... If you the person is stupid that is like an instant turn off for me...
06/07/2011
Contributor: big b big b
the hole package
06/07/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
How they feel about the world, environment, and about other people.
06/07/2011
Contributor: ddd masturbator(bye all!) ddd masturbator(bye all!)
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
Obviously, looks is what gets my attention. However, their personality is what makes me determine if I am truly attracted to the person.
06/11/2011
Contributor: Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
Something about how they look would obviously attract me first or else I wouldnt approach someone... but I am huge on intelligence... no matter how attractive, if they cant keep an interesting conversation going I get bored...

And then again, if someone approached me and was charming enough I guess I really wouldnt care about looks that much at all...
06/20/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Out of the above choices. Id say sense of humor.
06/20/2011
Contributor: Amazonia Dentata Amazonia Dentata
Looks, usually closely followed by "Other." Intelligence doesn't do much for me unless there's an extreme amount of it.
06/20/2011
Contributor: LittleBird LittleBird
Sense of humor is so attractive to me, and conversation quality. If we can make each other thing, communicate, and laugh; I'm hooked.
06/26/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Intelligence
06/26/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
A combination of personality and appearance
06/26/2011
Contributor: wa2cee wa2cee
I'm a tom boy at heart so I like a great mix of as my boyfriend would call it ruff and tumble.... Thats what a attracted me to him.... As well as him be a big kid at heart....
06/26/2011
Contributor: philz philz
Looks and humor. (eyes especially seem to be my focal point lately)
07/02/2011
Contributor: Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by philz
Looks and humor. (eyes especially seem to be my focal point lately)
I also love eyes... I always look people in the eye when I am talking to them...
07/03/2011
Contributor: CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
Smile and body
07/04/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
I like 'em brainy
07/07/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
personality
07/07/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
human beings respond to visual stimuli. humor, personality , etc may be a cincher, but subconsciously we begin speaking to them because we find them visually attractive. so i'm going with looks, though they have to be funny for me to actually like them
07/08/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Three things: a job (and car, by extension), common interests (most important), and intelligence.
07/08/2011
Contributor: ns143ts ns143ts
other, it is usually his personality! But I also go for looks, not that they are the most important, there has to be that natural attraction for me.
07/08/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
Vocabulary!
07/23/2011
Contributor: DixieDoo DixieDoo
All of the above except for money. Looks usually make a person look again. But sometimes it's really the personality that makes the man adorable.
07/24/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
Sense of humor, personality and then looks. Something about a guy with a good sense of humor makes him incredibly sexy.
07/29/2011
Contributor: BabyL0ve BabyL0ve
Looks and sense of humor. I got to laugh with someone
08/13/2011