I have before. It turned out to be a waste of time. It ended badly
Have you ever Watched and Waited for someone to become available again? (for love)
10/11/2011
WELL, UNNO IF THIS COUNTS BUT MY BOO LOCKED UP FOR 7 YRS, SOOO WILL I WAIT? HMMM ILL STICK WITH HIM, BUT FAR AS SINGLE MODE. IM SINGLE IF THAT MAKES ANY SCENSE
10/11/2011
No. But I was lucky enough to end up with my love.
10/11/2011
I'm sort of half doing that right now.. not keeping myself tied to him, I'm perfectly open to other people, but I'm hoping a little that we'll get back together. Ugh. It sucks.
02/04/2012
Yeah, not always by choice though. I wouldn't pass up someone who came along but usually someone doesn't when I'm crushing on someone so I wait.
02/04/2012
I won't not date if I know someone I am interested in is going to be on the market again soon, but I wouldn't AVOID relationships of my own to wait on someone. I've done it before, and it was so stupid. Thankfully I learned my lesson young and never went though it again!
10/24/2012
Every day you wait is another day you don't pursue something greater.
10/26/2012
Nope
10/26/2012
nope
10/26/2012
yes but not too actively , just in the back of my mind
10/29/2012
Nope
10/29/2012
I don't because I hate it when I know people are doing it to me. -_-;
10/29/2012
putting my life on hold for someone doesn't work for me.
10/29/2012
it doesn't sound healthy. so they can date, and you can't? if the two of you are meant to be, then just be open to that if circumstances change.
yet be open to finding new love, because if you are so set on that other person that you "just have to have", then you aren't able to give your heart to someone new.
i spent years waiting, in a different way then what you mean here. and eventually you gotta just let go. putting your heart on hold will break your heart, close your heart off, and...well it'll give u issues
yet be open to finding new love, because if you are so set on that other person that you "just have to have", then you aren't able to give your heart to someone new.
i spent years waiting, in a different way then what you mean here. and eventually you gotta just let go. putting your heart on hold will break your heart, close your heart off, and...well it'll give u issues
10/30/2012
Never.
10/30/2012
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It hurts so much to see them with someone else but their happiness is what's important.
Originally posted by
kinky girlfriend
I'm talking about a woman or man you stay single because you hope the person will become available again. Not for sex like oh she/he is single oh yea..But becauuse you love the person and you feel hope always exists things can change you never
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I'm talking about a woman or man you stay single because you hope the person will become available again. Not for sex like oh she/he is single oh yea..But becauuse you love the person and you feel hope always exists things can change you never know what will happen so you wait and watch...could be a situation you broke up or you are in love and they are taken already.
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12/26/2012
After I split up from my last ex, and he had a new lady, I thought for a few, deluded minutes that I'd wait for him.
And then it occurred to me that was ridiculous, and I needed to live my own life too.
I've also hooked up again with old lovers on different occasions, which I don't think would have happened if I'd been waiting around for them. I woulda still been the same lame girl they split up with years before, where as since I didn't hold onto it, and spent my life growing and learning and having new experiences, when we were in the same place again, they were impressed by the person I'd become.
If anything is going to happen in the future, you'll have to let go of the past, and spend the present growing and learning and having experiences and becoming a better human. Not just for your old lover, but for yourself as well.
And then it occurred to me that was ridiculous, and I needed to live my own life too.
I've also hooked up again with old lovers on different occasions, which I don't think would have happened if I'd been waiting around for them. I woulda still been the same lame girl they split up with years before, where as since I didn't hold onto it, and spent my life growing and learning and having new experiences, when we were in the same place again, they were impressed by the person I'd become.
If anything is going to happen in the future, you'll have to let go of the past, and spend the present growing and learning and having experiences and becoming a better human. Not just for your old lover, but for yourself as well.
01/30/2013
No i havent
01/30/2013
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I have loved but I am happy and it wouldn't work out
Originally posted by
kinky girlfriend
I'm talking about a woman or man you stay single because you hope the person will become available again. Not for sex like oh she/he is single oh yea..But becauuse you love the person and you feel hope always exists things can change you never
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more
I'm talking about a woman or man you stay single because you hope the person will become available again. Not for sex like oh she/he is single oh yea..But becauuse you love the person and you feel hope always exists things can change you never know what will happen so you wait and watch...could be a situation you broke up or you are in love and they are taken already.
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01/30/2013
I have before, and it ended up tearing me apart. It was awful, and I don't think I would ever do it again.
01/31/2013
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This is something that I have never done and probably will never do
Originally posted by
kinky girlfriend
I'm talking about a woman or man you stay single because you hope the person will become available again. Not for sex like oh she/he is single oh yea..But becauuse you love the person and you feel hope always exists things can change you never
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more
I'm talking about a woman or man you stay single because you hope the person will become available again. Not for sex like oh she/he is single oh yea..But becauuse you love the person and you feel hope always exists things can change you never know what will happen so you wait and watch...could be a situation you broke up or you are in love and they are taken already.
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01/31/2013
I feel like you could try doing it, but maybe the universe is trying to lead you somewhere else.
02/01/2013
nope
02/03/2013
Ehhh. I guess you could say i've waited in hopes.. but not really. I get on with my life usually.
02/10/2013
Yeah. I've done it before...
02/10/2013
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Thought about it but never actually waited.
Originally posted by
kinky girlfriend
I'm talking about a woman or man you stay single because you hope the person will become available again. Not for sex like oh she/he is single oh yea..But becauuse you love the person and you feel hope always exists things can change you never
...
more
I'm talking about a woman or man you stay single because you hope the person will become available again. Not for sex like oh she/he is single oh yea..But becauuse you love the person and you feel hope always exists things can change you never know what will happen so you wait and watch...could be a situation you broke up or you are in love and they are taken already.
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02/12/2013
I have... no we are engaged.
02/15/2013
I said no only because I wouldn't stay single solely to wait for someone. Take a taste of the buffet, if the one you want is available again, you can make yourself available too.
02/26/2013
No I have never.
03/04/2013
I have waited around to see whether a relationship ends because I'm interested in one of the people in it. I wouldn't have turned down other opportunities with people had appealing ones presented themselves, though. If we're both single, great.
03/04/2013
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