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Sex with an ex? Everyone welcome!

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Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by KinkyNicki92
I wish it was that easy but if i had sex with an ex it would stir up old feelings and id be heartbroken all over again.
I agree.
With my more recent ex-lover it was difficult enough to get over breakup. Reconstituting old feelings would not be wise.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
personally I would never
12/05/2012
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
Me and my ex are best friends, not sure. We've pretty much left it up in the air but have decided "not to make a point to do so". It's not been a "bad" breakup per say, just a breakup in the sense that we need to take time for ourselves and it was too much drama being together. So sure, sex would be great, and we've sort of had short gropey sessions. That's it, though.
12/10/2012
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
Every situation is different. I have twice - first time, it just broke my heart because it got my hopes up and nothing came out of it. The second time we both went in knowing it was a friends with benefits situation and when I ended it b/c I was getting ready to start a serious relationship, there were no problems
12/21/2012
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
I did that once after I broke up with my first boyfriend because I felt sorry for him. He didn't take the break up well, looking back on it I wish I had never done it because I regretted it right away and it just gave him hope that we'd get back together which I had no intention of doing.
01/07/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
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Originally posted by mariedoll
This question has been frustrating me lately due to the fact that I have done just this, sex with an ex. Not just once, but several times. You know how it can be, you guys dated and if for a relatively nice period of time, you get to know one another ... more
Not a chance. They are not worth it.
01/09/2013
Contributor: talon4196 talon4196
No, too much trouble there.
01/09/2013
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
Have done it before.
01/11/2013
Contributor: doowop doowop
I've had after-breakup sex with all of my exes. And it always got awkward so I've put an end to that trend. Haha.
01/31/2013
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
i used to have a habit of sleeping with my exes "one last time" which I dont do anymore BUT I have one ex that I have carried a torch for since 98 and probably always will. lately we have been talking again and I kept congratulating myself that I truly am sincerely happy for him and can accept not getting that chance because he is now married with kids and i would never want to interfere in that- odd thing though- the other night he confided that his sex life sux and he would consider seeing someone on the side. my reply was "well I guess this is why I'm not going to visit right?
"yup" he replied. good thing we live like 7 hours apart
01/31/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
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Originally posted by Mwar
My thought is: an ex is an ex for a reason. There's no need to put yourself in that potential mess.
That's exactly how I feel!
01/31/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
depends on the people involved and their personalities, but sometimes its just easier to not go there again
01/31/2013
Contributor: hillys hillys
I've done it with two of my ex's, and in both situations we are kind of in murky waters. With the first guy he thought we were back together and got super mad when I kissed another guy and I had to explain to him that we were just having sex... So bad for him not so bad for me. Second result however I am the person on the worse end. This guy graduated and keeps coming back to town and I'll text him at 1 in the morning and he'll come and have sex with me. The problem, he has no feelings for me and me feelings for him change every time this happens and I haven't been able to move on. Other problem, my brain and body aren't really connected so I keep doing this...
02/01/2013