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Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
I'm going to say I don't know because of lack of circumstance.
12/11/2011
Contributor: inmytoybox inmytoybox
Not my thing. Haven't find the right person. Maybe that would change then.
12/14/2011
Contributor: markwashere markwashere
Yeah, but those usually turn into something else for me...
01/16/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
yes as long as you don't make it a habit
01/19/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
Not IMO
01/19/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I voted yes, because as long as two people agree to do it, sure it is ok, but I don't think it is not the wisest idea. I have done it, but with people I knew, never someone I didn't know.
02/11/2012
Contributor: fifi fifi
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
Voted "IDK" because there was no "depends on the situation" option. That's not a black or white question.
02/14/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Not for me.
02/14/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
They might work for some people, but they don't for me.
02/14/2012
Contributor: ginger715 ginger715
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
I see nothing wrong with it as long as you know the person and protection is used.
02/14/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
"IDK". Because there is no "Other". I am not against them really, but if you are not cheating and not screwing anyone over or hurting yourself or anyone else, sure why not!
02/14/2012
Contributor: Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
for me one night stands are not okay. not sure why tho.
02/14/2012
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
totally. but i'd rather then not be in a relationship/married, i don't wanna get tied in any weird shit. i mean, unless they're open to it, but then i'd get involved with both. '3'
02/14/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Some of these answers are nothing short of entertaining. I'll leave it at that.

I don't care what two (or more) consenting people do behind closed doors. It's really no one's place to judge, and really, it doesn't matter what other people's opinions are in the first place.

Do what makes you happy and be safe while doing it. If you don't feel like you're emotionally or morally prepared to have a one night stand, it might not be for you. If you are, woo! have a ball.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
Never done it before.
09/30/2012
Contributor: libra777 libra777
Sure. Sometimes you gotta do what ya gotta do.
10/21/2012
Contributor: swaggsohott12 swaggsohott12
yes...safely and not on a regular basis
10/23/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
It depends. Sometimes I worry too much. But I've had a couple, and to be perfectly honest they were pretty damn good. We were on the same page, I got the physical comfort I wanted, as well as dinner, and I made breakfast. Then I went home and I didn't have to deal with pleasing anyone. It was exactly what I needed at the time.

I agree with a lot of the other posters though, and it all depends on how you are wanting the questions answered? Morally right? Right for you? Right for others? Ect?
10/24/2012
Contributor: BiteOnThis BiteOnThis
Hey, we've all got needs. And I suppose every time you have sex with someone new, it's a potential one night stand...Sometime you just don't want to try it again with the same person more than once.
10/26/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
Yes, they are ok.
10/26/2012
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
Not that tempting tor me, but nothing I'm judgemental about.
10/26/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
I think there ok. They can be quite hot at times I've had a number of them some of my hottest sex was one night stands!
As long as ya don't fall for each other there great!
10/27/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
For the most part....too many can be bad.
10/27/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
are they ok for me? idk
are they ok for other people? that's up to them.
i don;t have any moral or ethical issues with it
10/30/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Quote:
Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
depends on the person. some ppl cant handle them
Totally agree.
10/30/2012
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
I don't see a problem with them. Just not my thing.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Hers&mine Hers&mine
Both people DEFINITELY have to know it is a one night stand. If they don't then it is pretty messed up. It's like kicking someone in the genitals.. or telling them they are the ugliest most disgusting person you have ever met. Talk about it first... don't just leave them wondering wth they did wrong. I hate having to pick up the peices of my friends hearts because somone acted like they were so interested and then the next day they get a call from the wife telling them to stay away from their man and they are a slut and all of that. It's just wrong. ....ok ..done with the rant.lol
10/30/2012
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
If your safe, sure why not
10/30/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
depends on the people
11/28/2012
Contributor: sweet&lush sweet&lush
I think one night stands are okay as long as those involved are practicing safe sex.
11/28/2012