was married but don't think will ever do it again,,, happy living together I guess

JR - I was 34 and single - pretty much stopped looking, then met the love of my life. Married at 35 - 23+ years ago!

There may be hope yet then!

I agree completely. There many perks that go along with marriage, and protections for both men and women. (The protections and rights are many of the reasons that gay marriage should be legal, too.)

I feel more secure, both financially and emotionally being married, my husband and I have rights than non-married people are not able to share with each other, even in addition to hospital visitation and decision making (you can actually legally make anyone your Medical Proxy, married to that person or not, but it's a lot easier if the two of you are legally married) and insurance. (I honestly think it's irresponsible to not do everything you can to get health insurance. No one can guarantee they (or their children) will never get sick and the high cost of health care is greatly due to those who don't pay and don't have insurance using the system while everyone who does "play" pays for it.) The place where my husband works does have Life Partner Insurance, both for G&L couples and for unmarried, but living together hetero couples. But, most companies don't offer things like this. I wouldn't feel safe for a moment without health insurance. No one can guarantee they will "never" get sick or injured. As I work part time, I don't get health insurance from my employer, but I have been on my husband's insurance plan since the day we got married.

I feel strongly, along with many others here that marriage is a LOT more than "a piece of paper." It is a legal contract that grants rights and benefits, that no other contract can fully grant.

Not to mention that I love my husband and being legally as well as emotionally bonded makes both of us happy.

It may not be for everyone, but it works really well for us.

Yes I agree with this! It comes with its benefits. Not to mention life insurance and such to protect the other spouse and potential children.

Marriage is pretty important to me. Nothing wrong with not wanting to marry if that is your choice, but I sure hope I will. My partner and I attended a bridal show recently to see what we want to do for our wedding