How do I get it through to him?

Contributor: VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
I was going to choose the ignore him option BUT if he's crazy (like me) being ignored just fuels the fire to keep trying and chasing you. I think you need to tell him seriously and honestly why you shouldn't get back together and say no and THEN ignore him. If he comes around just tell him no over and over. He should eventually get the point and move on. I think just flat out ignoring him could cause problems.
05/24/2012
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
I voted "other" and here is why. You said you don't "THINK" you should be together, but the real question is "Do you WANT (or not want) to be together?" And why? Were you happy? Did he treat you bad? Are you with someone else? This is something you need to know, not think, and I am not sure you know. You need to do some soul searching so that you know in your own heart what you want, and if it IS no, then tell him to F OFF!
05/24/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
no clue
06/08/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I would just ignore him.
06/08/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
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06/08/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
You've tried to be polite, so the next time tell him that it has no chance of working and to not talk to you again, then ignore him
06/09/2012
Contributor: Nirelan Nirelan
Tell him to eff off THEN ignore him
06/22/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
Frankly, I'm having a similar but not as direct issue recently and ignoring is the path I went for. My ex and I broke up on bad terms... Basically he just stopped talking to me after an almost two year relationship. There were a lot of unsolved feelings and things we needed to talk about, but I had to move on and now I'm in an incredible relationship and don't really feel the need to "talk it out." However, he frequently messages me lately to ask if I want to talk because HE wants to talk HIS feelings out now--too bad, so sad cowboy. You had your chance and now I've moved on!
11/05/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Throw it all out there. Don't leave him with any doubt or in-road. THEN if he bugs, tell him to bugger off.
agree with this. give him all the answers he's looking for, and then do what feels right to you!
11/06/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
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Originally posted by ddd masturbator(bye all!)
I broke up with my ex 2 years ago. We were friends for 4 years before hooking up. Shortly after we broke up, he dated two different girls. He was with the second girl for a year and a half before things finally went south. He keeps bugging me that we ... more
Go with your gut and hold your ground.
11/07/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
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Originally posted by ddd masturbator(bye all!)
I broke up with my ex 2 years ago. We were friends for 4 years before hooking up. Shortly after we broke up, he dated two different girls. He was with the second girl for a year and a half before things finally went south. He keeps bugging me that we ... more
Tell him to LEAV YOU ALONE or you'ree going to get the authorities involved. This always seems to help
12/27/2012
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
Ignore him.
12/29/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by ddd masturbator(bye all!)
I broke up with my ex 2 years ago. We were friends for 4 years before hooking up. Shortly after we broke up, he dated two different girls. He was with the second girl for a year and a half before things finally went south. He keeps bugging me that we ... more
Ignore him.
12/29/2012