Do you ever fantasize about an ex when masturbating?

Contributor: NJ casanova NJ casanova
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
ummm, now I wonder if any of my ex's fantasize about me while doing it

I think mine "fantasize". ..about killing me when I started hooking up with her stripper friends at her work right in front of her Actually being a true "gold digger", she probably hate it more when I "made it rain" on them.
11/04/2015
Contributor: CuriousJ CuriousJ
Very rarely. But since they're all super crazy, it really kills the mood if i think about them too long.
11/04/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by NJ casanova
I think mine "fantasize". ..about killing me when I started hooking up with her stripper friends at her work right in front of her Actually being a true "gold digger", she probably hate it more when I "made it rain" on them.
Omg, so if you suddenly disappear we'll know what happened.

sofar looks like the greenie w/the hatchet has not caught up with the yellow smiley. "Run, run, don't turn around!"
11/04/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by CuriousJ
Very rarely. But since they're all super crazy, it really kills the mood if i think about them too long.
What you dated some crazies ? I if crazies are good in the sack
11/04/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
What you dated some crazies ? I if crazies are good in the sack
You put crazies in a sack?


Sack
11/04/2015
Contributor: BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
I fantasize about certain ones, different aspects of each. To me, its nothing more than fantasy. I have no thoughts of wanting to get back together or anything like that. I love my man very much. Just happen to think of some hot moments from the past from time to time.
11/05/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by BlackOrchid
I fantasize about certain ones, different aspects of each. To me, its nothing more than fantasy. I have no thoughts of wanting to get back together or anything like that. I love my man very much. Just happen to think of some hot moments from the past ... more
I do like remembering those special moments, but it not to get off or compare etc.
11/05/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
You put crazies in a sack?


yep, best way to keep them in check.

Everyone needs some craziness in their lives. Even us vanilla gorillas.
11/06/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
yep, best way to keep them in check.

Everyone needs some craziness in their lives. Even us vanilla gorillas.
Wait you have gorillas now what happened to your bag of crazies?
11/07/2015
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
I have, but it feels like crap. I'll stick with thinking about Michonne.
12/06/2015
Contributor: Ms.Terious Ms.Terious
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Originally posted by ashboo32
Just curious if I'm the only one...
Sometimes!
03/30/2016
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
I tend to only think about my ex-gf while masturbating when I happen upon porn with a star that reminds me of her in some way. This happened when we were dating too... and happens when I happen upon a star that reminds me of my current SO too.
06/11/2016
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by ashboo32
Just curious if I'm the only one...
Guilty! Even though our sex life was a disaster, because she was my first sexual partner, and exposure, I have some vivid memories of events that were " semial " ( sorry ) moments that probably set the stage for my sexual preferences and fantasies going forward. I think it is very difficult to not have moments that would be special with a former partner that you would remember fondly.
06/12/2016
Contributor: cagypsy cagypsy
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Originally posted by ashboo32
Just curious if I'm the only one...
I used to...
12/15/2016
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
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Originally posted by ashboo32
Just curious if I'm the only one...
I replay things in my head from back in the day when we were together and the sex was amazing..
01/03/2017
Contributor: OrbitalLover OrbitalLover
Every once in a while they hang out in my brain. But masturbation is like an open door policy. Sometimes the weirdest people walk in and then it's over. Other times I'm cool about it. Depends. They were all pretty and good at sex in their own way, so I'm always at least vaguely interested in the concept, but emotionally there's important reasons we're apart, and I usually only continue if I don't feel any symptoms of that psychology being threatened.
01/08/2017
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
So long as you don't compare your overly hung ex to your less than average current BF.

I hated it when that used to happen.
01/09/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
So long as you don't compare your overly hung ex to your less than average current BF.

I hated it when that used to happen.
Did I miss something how do you know OrbitL is a guy


Anyway, I had the unpleasant experience of what you just said.
As a youngster, a new gf told me her last was "up to here"


And you said "used to happen " does that mean you got an enlargement?
01/11/2017
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Did I miss something how do you know OrbitL is a guy


Anyway, I had the unpleasant experience of what you just said.
As a youngster, a new gf told me her last was "up to here"


And you said "used to happen ... more
lol.

I was speaking emphatically, not directly tot he post above.

"Used", hmm, well those conversations stopped when we broke up.
01/12/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
lol.

I was speaking emphatically, not directly tot he post above.

"Used", hmm, well those conversations stopped when we broke up.
I hope that got a smile out of you. And anyone that read it
01/12/2017
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I hope that got a smile out of you. And anyone that read it
01/13/2017
Contributor: Nanuk Nanuk
Yeah, sometimes it just happens. I was just talking to a friend about this the other day, and she said she feels guilty whenever she brings her ex into her masturbation because it's against their will or whatever. But like I said.... sometimes, it just happens. I get guilty for a split second before I'm just.. oh well. Haha
02/03/2017
Contributor: merlinn merlinn
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Originally posted by ashboo32
Just curious if I'm the only one...
Not about the ex. About a lot of her friends, YES.
08/20/2017