Casual sex vs. Masturbation: when you're single and need to scratch that itch, which is more satisfying?

Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
No matter how attractive a chap is, I don't feel much sexual attraction until an emotional connection is made, so there's no drive for me to engage in casual sex. Besides, I've got plenty of nice toys.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I prefer masturbation, since it is safer, but I will have causal sex too.
02/28/2012
Contributor: sagegirl72 sagegirl72
Plug in. So much more fulfilling to love yourself and not create an unecessary link to someone else's energy.
03/03/2012
Contributor: clp clp
It just comes down to my level of satisfaction--I know how to get me off, a stranger doesn't. I am of the mind that a developed relationship (in whatever form: romantic partners, play partners, etc.,) delivers better sex, because you can figure out where a person's buttons are.

Nothing wrong with casual sex, if you swing that way, its just not rewarding to me.
03/06/2012
Contributor: Nora Nora
It really depends on my mood, but if I can't find a "willing participant", there's always the BoB's...
03/06/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Casual sex makes me happier if I can find the time.
07/18/2012
Contributor: Charry Charry
It's much less complicated to just masturbate.
07/18/2012
Contributor: MilyxXxD MilyxXxD
depends
10/08/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
Masturbation. I don't like hooking up.
10/08/2012
Contributor: subwayrailings subwayrailings
cannot stand casual encounters, to be honest. the other person tends to become much more attached then me.
10/08/2012
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
When I was single, generally I preferred casual sex to masturbating, but now that I'm in an open LDR, I prefer masturbating to casual sex.
03/12/2013