Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Casual sex vs. Masturbation: when you're single and need to scratch that itch, which is more satisfying?
12/04/2011
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Considering the huge number of sex toys I have at my disposal, I can scratch whatever itch I'm feeling whenever I want. While I do love sex, when I tried the casual sex thing, it just got too complicated. I prefer to have a small, close circle of sex partners, or a monogamous relationship. The risk of diseases and the emotional hassle make casual sex not worth it to me.
12/04/2011
Masturbation. I don't do casual sex.
12/04/2011
Masturbation, MUCH less to worry about
12/04/2011
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Plug in. I've been doin' that for 5 years even when I was in a relationship, sadly.
Originally posted by
biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
12/05/2011
hm, I personally prefer casual sex. It's nice to have that one on one contact and you help someone else out too
12/08/2011
I'm not really interested in having sex with someone unless I'm in a relationship with them. I'd much rather just use my toys.
12/10/2011
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right there with ya!!
Originally posted by
MrWishyWashy
Masturbation, MUCH less to worry about
12/10/2011
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Oops, double post, sorry :-(
Originally posted by
MrWishyWashy
Masturbation, MUCH less to worry about
12/10/2011
It's not that masturbation is less to worry about, it's more of that I have trouble engaging in intimacy with people I have no emotional ties to. I used to have casual sex quite frequently, but I no longer am interested in such things.
12/10/2011
Wow.
12/10/2011
I don't enjoy casual sex. I only enjoy it when I'm in a relationship with someone. You can have casual sex with someone who doesn't care about pleasing you. I believe that I can pleasure myself much better through masturbation than having sex with someone who doesn't put in any effort to make me feel good.
12/10/2011
Masturbaion loses it's appeal after awhile.
12/10/2011
Masturbation is the safest!
12/10/2011
Masturbation. Because I know how I like it.
12/14/2011
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Masturbation. Casual sex seems like it would be too stressful, and I'd suffer from frequent existential crises as a result. Also, strangers aren't familiar with my sweet spots.
Originally posted by
biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
01/13/2012
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Um...Yes? I'm not single. Married but with a open hall pass to play and a husband who is both gone a lot and supportive of me getting some on the side. I very much enjoy masturbation and I am very happy using my fingers or any of my toy collection to get me off. That being said there is sometimes no good substitution for getting your fucks on and getting laid. Most of the time I am good with party of one but every so often I get a helper or two Well! Some guys get lonely if they come to play alone! Who am I to say they shouldn't bring a tall, dark, handsome big muscled friend? .
Originally posted by
biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
01/13/2012
Masturbation, casual sex just doesn't do it for me.
01/13/2012
I know myself best, but sometimes the girl knows things i don't. But for the most part its masturbation...
01/16/2012
masturbation...you don't have to deal with the other person. Plus there are so many toys out there!
01/23/2012
These replies must all be women. I'm pretty sure 99% of men would take casual sex over masturbation if they could get it.
01/23/2012
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I agree. Most of the time I'll choose masturbasion, but sometimes that 'itch' needs more than a toy can give me.
Originally posted by
authorzero
Masturbaion loses it's appeal after awhile.
01/23/2012
not a big fan of hookups theses days
01/23/2012
I'd much rather masturbate knowing I'm going to be fully satisfied than to go out and find some stranger to screw. If I'm having sex, I want the emotional connection - otherwise forget it!
02/07/2012
Not a fan of hookups never have been and never will be. That itch can wait till I have known someone for a long time.
02/07/2012
I go back and forth with this. When casual sex stops being all about getting my needs met, I switch back to solo time.
02/07/2012
Masturbation with ocassion casual sex was my preference when I was single.
02/19/2012
I don't have casual sex. Seems pointless.
02/20/2012
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Masturbation
Originally posted by
biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
02/21/2012
I'm not single, but I think I'd feel more fulfilled with a casual hook up.
02/27/2012
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