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Would you be mad or upset if your wife went out without her wedding ring?

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Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by BuckeyeMan
My wife ran to the store today and forgot to put on her wedding ring and a guy was flirting with her. It happens quite often to be honest. Its not a big deal to be but actually a turn on to me.
I haven't worn mine in many years, so it would be hypocritical of me to get upset if she didn't.
05/10/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by BuckeyeMan
My wife ran to the store today and forgot to put on her wedding ring and a guy was flirting with her. It happens quite often to be honest. Its not a big deal to be but actually a turn on to me.
PS, I also find it a turn on when some guy checks out my wife, even after 23 years.
05/10/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I really didn't find an answer that would fit my vote. I wouldn't be mad (I am a female though) I could understand a person not wearing it all the time, but if they were going to a bar or somewhere that is likely to be hit on, I think you should make it clear by wearing your wedding ring. I would wear it just because I liked it and because I would want the message to come across in almost any setting. I however, don't think it's something that is neccessary unless it involved a bar or something. Now as for being turned on? No. I would be highly pissed if my partner was turned on by my pretending not to be married. It kinda means maybe you hope she will be hit on or something along the lines. I wouldn't want to give men the wrong idea so I'd wear mine. I would think my partner didn't love me if he was turned on by me not wearing it or getting hit on.
05/12/2011
Contributor: kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
Neither of us wear rings.
06/03/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by BuckeyeMan
My wife ran to the store today and forgot to put on her wedding ring and a guy was flirting with her. It happens quite often to be honest. Its not a big deal to be but actually a turn on to me.
I wouldnt care my husband doenst wear his at all so if he ha done i wouldnt mind i know who he belongs to
06/22/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
The wife and I have both forgotten to put our rings back on after doing something that required them to be off. Not a big deal to us.
06/22/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I wouldn't be angry.. because I rarely wear mine. I have a job where it would get ruined and I don't want to lose it, so I keep it in a velvet lined box until it's safe to wear it again. :3
06/29/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
IF I was to ever get married I'd like a husband to wear a ring so other females stay away (those with any morals anyway), but most guys seem to just leave their ring on so there wouldn't be any forgetting it. But if he happened to take it off and went out without it, I couldn't get upset about it. After all, I wouldn't want to wear any wedding rings period! I don't like rings.
01/14/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
If a person is going to cheat, they aren't going to let a piece of jewellery stop them.
01/14/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I never wear my wedding ring anymore and its not an issue. I don't go anywhere to get hit on either. With my last pregnancy my fingers swelled and I just got used to not wearing it.
01/14/2012
Contributor: youngbrooke83 youngbrooke83
how can i make a poll....i haver a serious question bout my relationship
01/14/2012
Contributor: arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
I trust my wife. The rings I bought for her are exactly that, for her. I didn't buy them to keep other guys away.
Well said.
01/14/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
My husband can't be mad! My fingers are too swollen cause I'm pregnant with his baby.
01/15/2012
Contributor: bsgs bsgs
the last time I accidentally forgot to wear my ring, my wife flipped out at me. She knows I wont wear it and will leave it at home if we have something dangerous going on at work though. She almost always goes wearing her ring, but when she forgets, I get pissed off. Also I get super pissed when she comes home after going out dancing with her friends or something and tells me about the guys who hit on her. I know shes hot, I know she is coming home to me, but I also don't want to hear her basically bragging about being hit on....that pisses me off more than anything.
01/17/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
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Originally posted by Yoda
If it was accidental, and was a one-time thing, then I'd be OK about it. If it "conveniently" happens on the nights that you're apart, than that's being deceitful. I'd have some pretty strong words.
me too!
01/19/2012
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
My husband takes his off so rarely that it would simply be strange to see it missing. I play up fake jealousy, since it gives me a reason to get snuggles from him. But its obvious that I'm just playing around. I take mine off for aikido and the lake/kayaking.
01/19/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I probably wouldn't care. It's a freakin' ring, in my opinion.
01/19/2012
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
I wouldn't be mad if it was an accident but I would like for her to wear it always.
01/22/2012
Contributor: leelee leelee
Quote:
Originally posted by Pleasure Piratess
Hope you don't mind, I substituted "wife" for "husband", but as long as it was accidental, I wouldn't care. If he were purposely leaving it off to attract attention or did it all the time, I'd prolly start to get pissed.
yes this is exactly word for word what I was going to write!
01/31/2012
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
I could tell you that my husband would be uncomfortable with it. Mainly because I ALWAYS wear it. I mean if I'm doing something messy or damage is a high risk, it comes off. But then it goes right back on. So he would view it as suspicious...
05/06/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I only wear mine when I go out or head to work (I tend to get a little "finger sweat" when at home, which grosses me out), and I honestly can't remember the last time my husband wore his (he can't stand the feeling of jewelry on his hands/wrists, and his fingers thave a habit of swelling during the day). Doesn't bother either of us at all.
05/06/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Nothing to get upset about sometimes things happen. But if it was constant then there be a problem.
05/06/2012
Contributor: sunkissedJess sunkissedJess
I guess I could see something like this causing an argument so I chose that I would be mad as hell.
05/06/2012
Contributor: jmex83 jmex83
Quote:
Originally posted by BuckeyeMan
My wife ran to the store today and forgot to put on her wedding ring and a guy was flirting with her. It happens quite often to be honest. Its not a big deal to be but actually a turn on to me.
I wouldn't be "mad as hell", but it depends on where she is going, why she forgot it and what not. If she was just running somewhere and had taken it off from doing dishes, cooking, shower etc, then I can see where it would be a common mistake that wasn't intentional. If she were doing it on a regular basis and was going out like with the girls or out to a club, or bar or something, THEN I would be pissed. My wife never takes her rings off though. Even with showering and what not. Usually the only time it comes off is in the summer when its really humid out and she starts to swell on her fingers.
05/09/2012
Contributor: MissYouBubbles MissYouBubbles
my rings NEVER leave my finger, even when I go in for a surgery I will tell them to tape it on! I feel tis way, we put them there when we got married 20 years ago that is where they are supposed to stay. I get very upset when my hubby takes his off for other then cleaning or keeping it safe while working on cars or something. Probably just me though
05/11/2012
Contributor: Miss Jenn Miss Jenn
Wow. We asked this question over a year ago and are still getting answers! Thats great!

Now that I am pregnant, I rarely wear my ring. My fingers swell in the heat and its uncomfortable. Not that I go too many places either way
05/11/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
Depends on the situation. I've had jobs previously that had strict no-jewelry policies (for safety reasons) so if it were for work or chores or just on accident I don't think I'd mind. If they were being sneaky and deliberate about it (like leaving it at home before heading to the bar and not letting me know) I would be pretty hurt.
05/11/2012
Contributor: prettynpink prettynpink
I often go out without mine on, but my fingers swell and go back to normal and swell again quite frequently and he understands and doesn't care
05/12/2012
Contributor: Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
Quote:
Originally posted by BuckeyeMan
My wife ran to the store today and forgot to put on her wedding ring and a guy was flirting with her. It happens quite often to be honest. Its not a big deal to be but actually a turn on to me.
As a wife, I don't mind, I know where his heart is. Also I think its kinda kinky and a turn on. When we are out people try to talk to him because he does not have a ring on, and then I just swoop in and "pick him up". I love the turn on.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
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Originally posted by LadyEarlGrey
Haha I think this is an interesting question. It depends on the situation of course. My husband takes his off while working since he works on ships and I would rather he kept his ring finger attached to his body. If I knew he meant to leave his ... more
This has happened to me as well. I actually told the guy I was married and he was still like ok so can we meet up. So I dont think a ring means anything to anyone but the people wearing them anymore.
05/23/2012