Depends on in what context. In bed, my partner. Out of bed, me.

I'm MUCH more aggressive than my partner, he's quite passive. I try to encourage him to be more assertive but he seems to need me to give him a little push to feel comfortable with asserting himself? haha

I voted that my husband is the aggressor or initiator in our relationship, but that was how it was with us before Eden. Now, I get new toys all the time and tell him we have to make time to test them, "For Science!" He loves it! I am also exploring my dominant side in the context of BDSM. While I would like to be more sexually creative and I find there's a lot of pressure associated with coming up with everything, the only way I feel I am going to get better at doing it is to do it. I love hubby's reactions, too!

So this is definitely a changing dynamic in our relationship.

We both can be.

I'm the dominant one in our daily life but because of that we both like him being dominant in the bedroom.

Me, because I crave it more than he does, being 8 years older than I.

Mostly my partner but we switch it up fairly evenly.

I am the wife and I am much more aggressive than my husband and I instigate sex at least 90% of the time.

I am the aggressor in and out of the bedroom. I'm strong willed and lucky to have met a man who doesn't try and challenge that