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When Making Love do you do it with ....

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Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski
okay not strobe bc i would pass out but some times lights are on sometimes they are off! most of the time i dont notice! LOL
12/05/2011
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
Theres something abouy candle light that makes every curve and muscle visible. After a great dinner or some drinks, thats making love for us
12/05/2011
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I would like to have the lights on, or dim lights, but most of the time, it happens just before bed, when the lights are already off, so it works!
12/27/2011
Contributor: dks210 dks210
We don't care, but dimmed lighting is always nice. It's calming, and gives an attractive tone to the skin.
01/17/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
lights off
01/19/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
Variety is good and lighting (and everything else) depends totally on mood.
01/21/2012
Contributor: Howells Howells
I have a red bulb (no pun..), and candles. Dimmable oldschool bulbs too - they have a remote control sometimes if it's in the bed, buttons get pressed and everything lights up or turns down
01/21/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
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Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
It doesnt really matter.
01/22/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
off
01/24/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Giggity Mrs.Giggity
I like the lights off, unless it is in the morning.
01/26/2012
Contributor: leelee leelee
I like it dark but will do it with whatever.
01/28/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
It depends on where we are, what the occasion is... and if there is an option either way(in the car there isn't)
02/23/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
Lights Off
02/24/2012
Contributor: RebelRebelJen RebelRebelJen
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Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
It really depends...
09/27/2012
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Usually we turn off the overhead light and turn on the side desk light we have in our room. It's dim, but enough to see if we need to find something.
09/27/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Lights on or dim lights/candles
09/27/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
Low light is good so we can see whats going on.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Whatever we're in the mood for
10/08/2012
Contributor: butts butts
almost always with the lights on or during the day. If it's dark, it won't stop us though.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
I started using the TV. I made a DVD of a campfire with an animated moon and clouds behind it. I have etherial Pagan music set with the sounds of nature in the surround. It's 2 hours long and the clouds roll by real slow, the moon sets at the same speed as the real thing and the fire dies down. It's awesome for the mood.
10/09/2012
Contributor: edenguy edenguy
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
Usually Candle light. I don't like bright lights in the room; they are too distracting
10/09/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Dim light and candle light.
10/09/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
We love to look each other in the eye. We are both very visual, so we always have some kind of lights on.
10/14/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Daylight or candle light - I hate the dark, I want to see my girl - and her parts!
We both enjoy seeing each others "parts"!
10/14/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by BadassFatass
Strobe light sex...that's kind of a cool idea, lol.
Oh my...have been there. Just causes headaches.
10/14/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Mz.GreenEyez
Haha...we have experienced the strobe light it's interesting and fun
A least fun the first time...till the headache set in.
10/14/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Kitt Katt
I used to be really self-conscious about my body but my husband makes me feel very good about myself and he likes to see me when we are making love so we usually do it with dim lights or candlelight or a combination.
Make his day. Give him some afternoon delight, with bright sunlight streaming in. It's awesome.
10/14/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
Ooh thanks for posting the link. I love that its cheap. In college I think we either had a blue light bulb or a black light but it was nice.
Black light! So very "disco 70's".
10/14/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Eden C.
Lights on. I'm just afraid I'll accidentally elbow her in the nose or something.
Funny!
10/14/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
Candlelight is best, the flicker does wonders to the experience.
10/14/2012