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Contributor: gumbyD gumbyD
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
Sometimes people do it with the lights out so they can fantasize better.
04/21/2011
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
It doesn't really matter for us, but I like to have at least a little light just to see what's happening.
04/21/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
At least for me personally I prefer making love with some dimmed or natural light so I can see what I am touching, tasting, etc and see the expressions on my wife's face and glory in the appearance of her nude body.
04/21/2011
Contributor: Retro Retro
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
For some reason it is always lights off. It is usually really late too so it adds less things to get up and cut off after
04/28/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
She: Once we're started, I couldn't care less. When I'm not in the moment, it's nice to have some dim lighting at least.

He: As long as I'm not staring straight up at a bright light, it's all good.
04/29/2011
Contributor: evelyn evelyn
05/01/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
I prefer full visibility. Why wouldn't I want to see how beautiful and sexy my wife is?
05/09/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
It doesn't matter. Whatever lights happen to be around when my pants come off.
05/17/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Light's off please
06/01/2011
Contributor: big b big b
with the tv on
06/05/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
lights on for sure or moonlight becausethats sexy
06/09/2011
Contributor: jc123 jc123
I hate sex in the dark. I refuse to do it.

Not sure why.
06/10/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
As long as it isn't pitch black I don't care. I like to at least be able to see a little bit.
06/10/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I love candles and fireplaces, but any time is a good time!
06/29/2011
Contributor: N&M N&M
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
I like the lights on
08/03/2011
Contributor: guard083 guard083
Depends on the mood, but I always wanna see my girls body
08/03/2011
Contributor: N&M N&M
Lights on, I love to watch her
08/04/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
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Originally posted by Ajax
hahah I like the last answer because my boyfriend JUST bought a strobe light yesterday and when he showed it to me he said "I think we need to have sex with this". Too funny!
Hehe do it!!
08/04/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
Any and all of the above. It does not really matter.
08/08/2011
Contributor: teeny <3 teeny <3
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Originally posted by P'Gell
TOTALLY. My Man and I are old Dead Heads. I'm surprised we didn't think of doing it with a lava light before. We've certainly done a lot of other "Trippy" things while fucking.

FTR, having sex on acid is a waste. Of the ... more
Balderdash! Acid sex is the bee's knees! Every several months or so when we have something really super special to celebrate, we'll stock up on nachos and raisinettes, lock ourselves in the house, get naked and have a self indulgent sensory overload for the next 16 hours. So amazing!
08/08/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I like to switch things up!
08/08/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
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Originally posted by Lucidity
I have this lamp that I got at Ikea and it only gives off red light. It rocks for setting the mood, and at night, it's the perfect amount of light.
My friends have the SAME lamp in their bedroom, and she was just telling me last night how awesome it is for sex!

We keep the bathroom light on and door cracked. I'm just not cool with full light yet.
08/24/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
We call it our love lamp.
09/08/2011
Contributor: hiroshiro hiroshiro
Dim lighting. I hate having sex in the dark, it feels so impersonal; bright lighting makes me a little self-conscious. Candle light is just dangerous to me, I have a lot of hair!
09/08/2011
Contributor: mcl272 mcl272
all of the above! it really depends on the mood as to what we choose.
09/08/2011
Contributor: NavyDoll87 NavyDoll87
Once we've gotten started the lights are the last thing on my mind.
09/12/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
depends on our moods and what we're in to at that particular moment.
09/12/2011
Contributor: momma22js momma22js
lights on lights off we don't care
09/17/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I like it dark or with a little candlelight. I am easily distracted and have a hard time with orgasm if the lights are on. One of the reasons I prefer long sessions and scenes at night. A quickie, where I most like am not going to come, is fine in ... more
Dawn orgasm sounds delicious!

Yea.... I still enjoy lights on at night or morning light.
09/17/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I prefer to be able to see him, he's beautiful, so usually the lights are on, but we switch it up sometimes... It doesn't matter as long as we're together.
09/17/2011