I agree with Bignuf!!!

I agree

Firstly, no apologies are necessary by the original poster.

Like "unfulfilled", we have the Eroscillator which my wife covets. What is different however, is that I love toys and to finish when she does. Myself, I enjoy being hard inside her while she uses it. I can see the intensity of the waves growing in her face, as well as I can feel the vibrations. At the time, I'm doing short motions against her G spot while this happens. This involves my having a hand hold on my shaft, so as to apply more rubbing pressure against her G spot with my penis head. I find my focusing on this allows me to slow down, but remain very excited and focused. When my wife starts going over the top, she just drops the Eroscillator and rolls her eyes back, and I know it's time. At other times, she will tell me to wait for it. And, it is so worth it.

I personally try to find ways of slowing down events. I prefer employing toys on her and enjoy watching her pleasure. This extends play, and heightens the experience.

I did come up with a plan for when I would cum to early. Was it ever a dismal failure. I bought what is called a Vixskin "Colossus". The Colossus is a high quality realistic silicone sleeve which fits over a man. The idea was that I could put it on and continue going with her until I've hopefully recovered. What wrong was that the Colossus has inside dimensions which your penis needs to meet. In my case it fit like a glove. What I did not plan on was that the sleeves walls are a quarter inch thick. I am about two inch in dia. when excited. This caused the Colossus to be two and a half inch in dia. My wife said it was just to large. That it hurt. Now, that was a disappointment. I still think the idea was good, but the sizing won't work for me. Vixskin makes a size smaller, but I'm larger than it’s outside dimensions, so it will not work. But, if you could have a frank conversation with your partner about such a toy, and it meets your needs, I have no doubt that this could be used successfully.