The New Intimacy

Does sex really get that much better with time for people who plan to stay together long term?

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Contributor: Skindiver Skindiver
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Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
Presumably marriage themed? I hear they say that the things you learn are much better then when it was new with most people.
For me, it has evolved, in such a way that the quality has remained excellent.
09/22/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
Presumably marriage themed? I hear they say that the things you learn are much better then when it was new with most people.
Let's hope it gets better!!!!
09/22/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
of course it gets better with time.
09/24/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
As people have said - it varies a lot. Ask me this question 10-15 years ago and I say no - it does not get better. But ask me now and I'd say it's better than ever and still improving.

We're talking about decades here, nothing I ... more
I couldn't have said it better myself!

Ten years ago I would've said it hadn't gotten much better - it was an issue, to put it mildly - but now it's the best it's ever been and getting better all the time. Better than I ever thought it could be.
09/25/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Sometimes we get in ruts, but for the most part, it has gotten better.
09/28/2012
Contributor: oldnbold43 oldnbold43
There is no doubt in my mind that sex does get better with time. My redhead and I know each other. We know what the other one enjoys and we are comfortable enough to seek new directions. We know we have less time remaining and we do what we want to do to please the other as well as satisfy our individual desires. We've been fortunate to have good health. I'm almost 70 and my redhead is 58. We've been married 35 years. Believe me, we are in good condition and we enjoy our sex life (and we love and respect each other). And, she is still HOT as HELL!!!!
P.S. We add new toys when we find something that looks like fun....
09/28/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
If you're fully open with each other, sex keeps getting better and better!
10/09/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
I've been married 34 years and we were together 6 years before that! For me my sex drive has gone up and down over the years and so has my pleasure level has too.
10/09/2012
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
Presumably marriage themed? I hear they say that the things you learn are much better then when it was new with most people.
Gets better because u r comfortable u get to know what works and u can communicate more openly about your sex life
11/27/2012
Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
We go up and down I think, I hope we'll get better at not letting it get to the "down" side over time.
11/28/2012