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Is it ok to have toys shaped like porn stars' sex organs in a long-term relationship?

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Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
Who cares?
05/09/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
A Fleshlight is a Fleshlight. If it keeps him from going after the real thing, sure. I don't mind at all.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
Its just a toy, I would probably leave my partner if they had a problem with it
05/29/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
a sex toy is just that a sex toy and sure can be fun but isnt the same as teh real thing and is uber fun when u use them together
06/09/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
It's all in the mind set. If you lust after these porn stars, then no it's not okay. If you just look at it for what it is, then it is totally okay. It goes the same for girls. If I wanted some other guys cock, real or in rubber, I would not ... more
Exactly. That sums up how I feel about it.
06/09/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
My boyfriend has one of the fleshlight girls and I don't mind at all - it is just a toy. It probably helped a little that he it took him awhile to realize they were molded after a porn star because he didn't recognize any of the names.
06/09/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Personally, I wouldn't care, and I don't like realistic dildos so I don't see it being an issue.
06/09/2011
Contributor: catalunalilith catalunalilith
i don't have interest in having one (really, if i'm going to get a toy, i want it to be quite unnatural-- blue, giant, vibrating, bumps, whatever)but i don't see the difference from just watching porn or using any other realistic toy.
07/16/2011
Contributor: Destri Destri
I got my hubby a replica of Jesse James' parts, and we both love the thing. It is all just fantasy, so what is the harm?
07/17/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
I would take a very insecure person to be jealous of a chunk of rubber/plastic/silicon e. And if they're that insecure about sex toys, there are most likely some larger issues at work that should probably be addressed.
I'll have to second this.
07/17/2011
Contributor: WetJenn WetJenn
My husband is fine with it.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I think it's fine. I wouldn't be bothered by it.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Paula Paula
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
Personally I'm not into realism in a toy but if my bf wanted one it wouldn't be a big deal for me.
12/08/2011
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
It's just a toy. It's not like it comes with the real person attached.
12/08/2011
Contributor: onehotmomma onehotmomma
I don't care either way
12/11/2011
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
Neither of us are fond of realistic toys, so..no.
12/11/2011
Contributor: LovesAPoet LovesAPoet
It might weird me out a bit if my partner had one but I wouldn't be upset or have an issue with it. I can't see myself owning one but I don't think it really matters.
12/11/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
I have no issue with it - its a piece of ruber/plastic... what is there to be jealous of? And you have no idea if its truly molded off of anyone - that might just be made up marketing. To me (obviously only my opinion) this is like being insecure or jealous of the washing machine...
01/04/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
It wouldn't bother me at all if my partner had a toy like this.
01/04/2012
Contributor: leelee leelee
Quote:
Originally posted by darthkitt3n
I don't think I'd really care at all, unless he preferred it way more than me.
Right? Hubby has one but I don't care and I'm sure he doesn't mind if I had one. But if he wanted it more than me then we'd have a problem, good thing he's only used it 2 times in a year!
02/01/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
i would care its just a toy
02/01/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I think that it's fine.It's not real.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
A toy that is realistic just weirds me out honestly.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Brittanyx Brittanyx
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
It's all in the mind set. If you lust after these porn stars, then no it's not okay. If you just look at it for what it is, then it is totally okay. It goes the same for girls. If I wanted some other guys cock, real or in rubber, I would not ... more
Agreed! You put that perfectly.
07/23/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
My partners can have any sort of sex toys they like, I don't really mind.
07/25/2012
Contributor: AriaRN AriaRN
there's nothing wrong with it. I mean, a dildo or a pocket pussy still serve their functions regardless of what they look like
07/29/2012
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
One specifically modeled after a person skeeves me out a little. I can't speak for anyone else, but this is just not for me. And hubs would never want one anyway, so it doesn't really matter over here.
07/30/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
It's just a toy!
08/10/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
Yes, It's OK because it's not the real thing.
08/10/2012
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
I have a realistic vagina toy (not a fleshlight) and I have had some good times with it, but I don't think it is a porn star modeled pussy. I know for a FACT my last partner would not have been happy with me having a fake pussy at all and if it would have been modeled after a specific porn star that DEFINITELY would have been an issue with her, but she had other "issues" too and now we are not together, and I'm MUCH happier for it. My current partner has not had much experience with toys, but she is extremely open to playing with them. I am saving some points for some type of masturbator and I have definitely been looking at the Fleshlights. I have to admit I have a particular kink for asian girls and the Asa Akira model looks like it would be super hot. I don't know if I would tell my partner about it though because I would be worried about her reaction, but I would really love it if she would be okay with enjoying it together the way we enjoy the toys designed more for her together.
08/10/2012