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Does your husband/male partner like anal penetration?

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Contributor: Sera Sera
I've heard of some men liking it, but mine doesn't, and I'm wondering if yours does. Why does he like it? How does he like it? How was he first introduced to it?
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08/26/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Sera
I've heard of some men liking it, but mine doesn't, and I'm wondering if yours does. Why does he like it? How does he like it? How was he first introduced to it?
This one needs an other catagory Sigel likes prostate stimulation where Arch isn't sure he does and isn't looking to find out the answer just yet. Sigel has no desire to be pegged though and in that both guys agree...no go. *sigh*
08/27/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
This one needs an other catagory Sigel likes prostate stimulation where Arch isn't sure he does and isn't looking to find out the answer just yet. Sigel has no desire to be pegged though and in that both guys agree...no go. *sigh*
I'll sigh with you...no actual pegging (harness and whatnot) in my house either, but the manual and toy play is still fun. And once we found the toy that's absolutely perfect for him, he's far more into it, so maybe he'll come around soon
08/27/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I vote "other" because it depends for him. Sometimes he likes a bit of anal play, sometimes he doesn't.
08/27/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
My hubby loves it!
08/27/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I suggested it and he really got into it first with butt plugs and strap-on play. He says his climaxes are even more intense even w/o penile stimulation.
He also likes a butt plug while having sex.
08/27/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Other again.

He really has no desire to try it, although I am pretty sure I saw him messing around with one of the silicone butt plugs a while ago, when we got our first one. But, it was only that one time.

I know when he doesn't want to come yet, he tells me to PLEASE take my hand off of his ass, because it will make him orgasm even faster. It's not even near the anus, just touching his ass, so I know he's sensitive there.

Our particular relationship really doesn't include my penetrating him, but I know a lot of men really enjoy it. He might even enjoy it, but it's up to him, it's his ass....
08/27/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
My bf was always very curious and when I finally got him a butt toy, he looooooved it. He wants more toys now, and blames me for all his toy obsessions, haha.
08/27/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Answering for my wife: yes. Much more than she does.

Not voting because I'm not my wife.
08/27/2010
Contributor: MsTryska MsTryska
he likes it - says it makes his dick more sensitive and the orgasms are better. he says he disovered it because soem girl gavwe hima bj and stuck a finger in.

I like it because it makes him moan, and you so rarely see a guy moan and really enjoy himself the regular way - they are too into being the top. And having reversed the roles...I can understand why - there is a lot going on to keep your mind occupied!
08/27/2010
Contributor: Timaree Timaree
for first timers and veterans of pegging, check out this column: link
08/29/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife is indifferent - she will do it because she know I like it.
08/29/2010
Contributor: FVWhitechapel FVWhitechapel
He claims he tried it as a teenager and didn't much care for it. =\ I'm trying to convince him to try again as an adult!
09/07/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
The boyfriend likes it. He prefers it with a strap-on, but I prefer just using the dildo.
09/12/2010
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
She would say that I like it.

She's right!
09/12/2010
Contributor: silversnowleopardess silversnowleopardess
My husband loves it when I use the strap on on him. He discovered that he liked anal play before we met by experimenting on himself. As for pegging, we talked about it before we got together and discovered that we were both curious about trying it, then we tried it and loved it.
09/13/2010
Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
My guy has tried it, and although I voted that he loves it, to say he's interested in exploring it may be a better description of his anal desires. But I've never used an actual strap on with him... at least not yet
09/13/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
grr this upsets me cuz i dont understand why most men think of this as a "gay thing" its not!!! the body likes what it like
09/15/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
grr this upsets me cuz i dont understand why most men think of this as a "gay thing" its not!!! the body likes what it like
It's as gay as liking a handjob or blowjob.
09/15/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
It's as gay as liking a handjob or blowjob.
yuppers!!
09/22/2010
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
He loves it!
10/15/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
Quote:
Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
grr this upsets me cuz i dont understand why most men think of this as a "gay thing" its not!!! the body likes what it like
That's how my husband is. It's not even a discussion that can be had.
10/15/2010
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
I was curious to how anal penetration would feel. It first started with just fingers, expanded out to an Aneros messager and the Tantus pro touch plug. I have enjoyed it on occasion, but my wife does not like to do it too often. My favorite way to do it is with the Aneros messager and just whatever position we are in for sex.
10/21/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
So, I see a variety of answers. My boyfriend kinda likes it, but I'm kinda... unsure how I feel about it. How... can I be more.. helpful maybe? Or, is there a particular toy that might help?

I don't wanna say I'm grossed out by it, but.. uncertain
10/21/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
So, I see a variety of answers. My boyfriend kinda likes it, but I'm kinda... unsure how I feel about it. How... can I be more.. helpful maybe? Or, is there a particular toy that might help?

I don't wanna say I'm grossed out by it, but.. uncertain
There are ways to help. Offhand, there are three common reasons people have for being unsure about giving their male partner anal stimulation. The first is "does this mean he's gay", and the answer is simple. No.

The second major issue is cleanliness/hygiene. This can be a bigger deal, but it's not that hard to solve. First, don't spring anal play on anyone as a "surprise", let them know ahead of time so they can go to the bathroom and make sure their bottoms are cooperating, and this will go a long way to minimizing yuckiness. Additionally you can put on a glove, which makes any mess easy to handle. If you're still concerned you can discuss the possibility of your partner taking a small enema/anal douche a hour or so before play to wash anything out of the rectum.

The third concern is one of hurting your partner. It's good to be careful - you can do damage if you are careless in anal play. Use safe toys, and if you're using fingers make sure that any sharp fingernails are either removed or guarded (wrap them in cotton balls and put on gloves). Use plenty of lube, go slow and have foreplay, and pay attention to what he's saying both verbally and nonverbally (but don't stop to over-analyze or do the "irritating waiter thing" and keep on asking if everything's OK - if it isn't it will be pretty obvious).
10/21/2010
Contributor: Yiggi Yiggi
I'm assuming you're talking about me putting something (my hand) into his anus.... and yes, he loves it. I'm not so big on letting him do me, though. But he does want to.
10/22/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
My husband will do prostate stimulation, but he does not necessarily crave penetration. I got him to try it by selling the health benefits of it and by telling him about articles I'd read which claim that prostate stimulation will intensify his orgasms. He just started trying it out a couple of months ago and occasionally uses his toys. We'll see if he grows to eventually like penetration.
10/22/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
My husband will do prostate stimulation, but he does not necessarily crave penetration. I got him to try it by selling the health benefits of it and by telling him about articles I'd read which claim that prostate stimulation will intensify his ... more
Does he like the prostate stim, or does he just do it?
11/03/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
My partner has tried it, and it's just okay for him.
11/03/2010