Do you have a thing for threesomes, if you've tried them? Have you ever had one?
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Have you ever had a threesome?
08/26/2010
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In a monogamous marriage and not interested.
08/26/2010
I'm fascinated and even turned on by the idea, but I can't wrap my mind around the actuality of sharing my partner with someone else.
08/26/2010
I didn't fit in. I've never tried it, my boyfriend has mentioned the possibility, but I don't think I'll ever let myself do it and end up jealous or have it ruining our relationship.
08/27/2010
Three some, Four some, and then well an all out orgy! 15 plus couples, and a few singles that were well partnered by the end of the night!
I think the hardest part was keeping an open mind, but like my GF and I had discussed at the time. It wasn't about leaving each other, and it wasn't about looking for something better. It was an experience that was done to open our minds to see exactly how far you can get lost in the pleasures of sex.
It really brought to light the thinking for me that " O... I would love to just have sex with That person or this person when you see someone." For my GF she felt the same. Being open to anything and allowing oneself to do it for the most part was the hardest part at first.
The group was made up of people that were older, as well as, younger then myself at the time. Everthing was done protected, unless you were with your regular partner, and then it was up to the couple. Needless to say I don't think there was a condom to be bought within a 10 mile radious of where it was held.
There is a lot of things that can come up, feelings get hurt, people get jealous, and it isn't something that you just up and do. Having an open mind and always remembering that each other loves each other, helped us.
I think the hardest part was keeping an open mind, but like my GF and I had discussed at the time. It wasn't about leaving each other, and it wasn't about looking for something better. It was an experience that was done to open our minds to see exactly how far you can get lost in the pleasures of sex.
It really brought to light the thinking for me that " O... I would love to just have sex with That person or this person when you see someone." For my GF she felt the same. Being open to anything and allowing oneself to do it for the most part was the hardest part at first.
The group was made up of people that were older, as well as, younger then myself at the time. Everthing was done protected, unless you were with your regular partner, and then it was up to the couple. Needless to say I don't think there was a condom to be bought within a 10 mile radious of where it was held.
There is a lot of things that can come up, feelings get hurt, people get jealous, and it isn't something that you just up and do. Having an open mind and always remembering that each other loves each other, helped us.
08/27/2010
I agree with passionate pastor
09/01/2010
As a young stud the idea appealed to me - but not enough to actively try to make it happen. As a happily married man, I have no interest in it now.
09/02/2010
i've been involved in them before, but when i was single and playing the field. now that i'm in a commited relationship with the love of my life it's an idea we've entertained as a silly idea. neither one of us is ever really comfortable with the idea lol. i think it's more of a single persons game.
09/02/2010
There should be an other option. I have tried... virtually. Not literally. But even then it caused terrible drama. So nope, not for me.
09/02/2010
The idea excites me. But I too am in a stable relationship with a family and will never really have one. It stays a fantasy for us, and that's okay.
09/04/2010
I put tried it and loved it because I've tried it but I haven't gone all the way, but I loved what I did! lol
09/04/2010
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I think that unless you're already living a polyamorous lifestyle, it causes problems. It seems like here's always at least one person who ends up with hurt feelings!
Originally posted by
Sera
Do you have a thing for threesomes, if you've tried them? Have you ever had one?
09/05/2010
the idea is intriguing for sure, but i know that i could not deal with the reality of it. so not for me!
09/07/2010
Alisha and I swap so yes we have tried it and love it!
09/08/2010
I've had a threesome with another couple which was pretty hot..but the best threesome I had (and continue to have) is with two of my girlfriends..
09/08/2010
I don't think I hate it. But I don't need it or find that I want it.
09/08/2010
I am monogamous and feel no need to have a three-some, four-some, or any other kind of "-some". I don't think I could trust some other person enough to "let them into my relationship" with my Fiancé and I. That and also both he and I are heterosexual and therefore it'd kind of defeat the purpose, lol. Please don't get me wrong, I have no issues with other people doing it, if they feel comfortable doing stuff like that, then that's fine, but it's just not for me.
09/08/2010
Not my thing. I don't share.
09/08/2010
Tried it, its ok, dont hate it and dont love it. Might have just been the age and the people. Up to try it again just to make sure.
09/08/2010
I tried a threesome with two men many years ago, before I met my husband, and I didn't enjoy it. I find it a lot easier to concentrate on one person at a time. Now that I'm married and monogamous, I have even less interest than before.
09/13/2010
Back in my single days, yeah, a few couples had their way with me. I was in a foursome, too. Ah, man. Those were the days.
09/13/2010
I have tried it with my g/f. I can't say I don't like it but it has made our life very complicated. My b/f enjoys watching strap-on with my g/f and me. She loves to get anal from him. She has a b/f who has never joined us but feels she is a better lover because of us.
Anyway, is is not easy as my g/f feels she is in love with me and wants us all to just live together. I keep telling her I would go out of my mind with us all together and furthermore, I want to marry my b/f and go on....
The threesome concept sounds hot in theory but reality is something else. The best sex for me is with my b/f, I will always need and want a real cock in my life. But he has picked up a few ideas watching us together which has enhanced our sex life.
The emotional issues and stress can be overwhelming!!
Anyway, is is not easy as my g/f feels she is in love with me and wants us all to just live together. I keep telling her I would go out of my mind with us all together and furthermore, I want to marry my b/f and go on....
The threesome concept sounds hot in theory but reality is something else. The best sex for me is with my b/f, I will always need and want a real cock in my life. But he has picked up a few ideas watching us together which has enhanced our sex life.
The emotional issues and stress can be overwhelming!!
09/15/2010
Just to clarify my vote, it's not so much that "I really want to!" but more like I'm willing to seriously consider it and most likely game to try it.
09/15/2010
OMG, whats better then a threesome with her husband, and a friend for a bisexual woman. I love it
I dont really feel comfortable with her having vaginal sex with him, but anything else is ok as long as ime there. All three of us love it.
I dont really feel comfortable with her having vaginal sex with him, but anything else is ok as long as ime there. All three of us love it.
09/18/2010
Sharing isn't my best quality, so nope.
09/18/2010
I always end up thirding with couples, not sure why. I love threesomes but I've found I typically take the position of "orchestrating" the logistics of it, and that's kind of where I excel. If I'm not in a topping role I'm usually uncomfortable and feel a little chaotic.
09/18/2010
I've had a fair number of threesomes, and some moresomes, and they're nice, I enjoy them, but they're not exponentially more enjoyable than one-on-oner sex with my girlfriend for me, the novelty is fun, but my girlfriend knows exactly what I like, and three ways tend to involve an amount of "wait, you need to move left" and "you're elbowing me in the thigh" and that sort of thing that makes them too finicky to be a very regular part of my sex life.
They're very enjoyable on occasion, but they're not something I'd enjoy all the time.
They're very enjoyable on occasion, but they're not something I'd enjoy all the time.
09/18/2010
I guess I've *kinda* had a foursome, but it was mostly same room sex. My man and I had discussed swinging and finally met up with our first couple. We went to their place and I started hooking up with the girl (my first time, it was great) and the guys kinda watched for a little while. Then our guys came over and joined with their respective partners, with a few hands going every which way. I decided in the midst of it, however that I was absolutely not interested in swapping, and didn't even touch the other guy.
We have since discussed trying threesomes, as he's done it before with previous girlfriends and finds that it is somewhat important to him in a relationship to be able to experience other people every now and then. I totally understand where he's coming from, and I can see threesomes working out much better for us, because I really enjoyed being with another woman and didn't feel jealous when my guy was touching the other girl in the swinging situation.
I know that my man's desire to experience other women has nothing to do with his lack of attraction to me, or lack of love for me. If I'm not comfortable with something, he's not going to push me into it. I call the shots, so if I'm not into something, not ready for it, whatever- it's not happening. Communication is EXTREMELY important, especially before deciding to jump in head first. We have talked about it a TON but we will still continue to communicate constantly to make sure we're both on board, and still have the same feelings about the situation.
We have since discussed trying threesomes, as he's done it before with previous girlfriends and finds that it is somewhat important to him in a relationship to be able to experience other people every now and then. I totally understand where he's coming from, and I can see threesomes working out much better for us, because I really enjoyed being with another woman and didn't feel jealous when my guy was touching the other girl in the swinging situation.
I know that my man's desire to experience other women has nothing to do with his lack of attraction to me, or lack of love for me. If I'm not comfortable with something, he's not going to push me into it. I call the shots, so if I'm not into something, not ready for it, whatever- it's not happening. Communication is EXTREMELY important, especially before deciding to jump in head first. We have talked about it a TON but we will still continue to communicate constantly to make sure we're both on board, and still have the same feelings about the situation.
09/20/2010
REDzSmile
My man just wants to share me with other men and I am more than ok to accomodate him. I, on the other hand don't share well at all...
09/24/2010
I've never had one but it one of my biggest fantasies. However unlike most guys I'm not talking about F-M-F 3way for me I'm much more turned on by the idea of being part of a M-F-M 3 way DPing the female.
09/25/2010