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Have you ever had a threesome?

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Contributor: nolongerhere nolongerhere
Quote:
Originally posted by buzzvibe
Just to clarify my vote, it's not so much that "I really want to!" but more like I'm willing to seriously consider it and most likely game to try it.
Same here, I am curious, but would probably not actually do it.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Ropeguy Ropeguy
tried once when I was in highschool, but never since. I wouldn't mind giving it a go now with the right person, but with my current girlfriend not likely going to happen.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
I tried it one sordid night on the Italian coast with the bellboy and a friend I was travelling with.. we were so smashed! I don't think I particularly loved it, but then again I wasn't conscious through half of it haha
10/07/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Voted "never tried it, hate it" but "never tried it, don't want to" would be better.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
Married, never tried it and don't plan on it. Not interested.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
really want to but it never happens
10/07/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Quote:
Originally posted by Sera
Do you have a thing for threesomes, if you've tried them? Have you ever had one?
Personally love a threesome especially if there is a connection between myself and the other two. MMF or FFM I like both.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
In my single days I had a few threesomes. The funny part is that in them all the guy couldnt keep it up. Intimidation set in and he pretty much sat at the sidelines.

Now we are in the lifestyle so moresomes happen often. We dont full swap, we soft swap and we are happy with that.
10/10/2010
Contributor: M121212 M121212
It really depends on the people involved. I have someone in my life who I've had a threesome with, and would like to again. Some lovers just make you feel really comfortable and adventurous, you know?
10/10/2010
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Eh, there wasn't an "other" option. I've never tried it and I'm interested, but I have a feeling I wouldn't enjoy it. I've always been the monogamous type, and I think I would just feel twisted and dirty if I tried a threesome. If I did though, I'd definitely want it to be mine and another man.
10/11/2010
Contributor: Serendipity Serendipity
I've been the invited guest to have sex with a couple a few times and also dated a married couple for about 10 months. I also participate in group sex, usually all women.

I don't think I have ever done a threesome where it has been me and my partner and a third invited.
10/11/2010
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
Tried It, Loved it.

However, it doesn't fit into my current relationship. It's not "our" thing.
10/11/2010
Contributor: sasweetheart89 sasweetheart89
i am married and i have had a threesome with another couple and the girl of that couple had a threesome with me and my man. i can have tendencies toward insecurity about self esteem and also slight trust issues (even though he's never given me a reason so it's just in my head) i would just say that you HAVE to have a ton of discussions about it before you do it so it does not mess with your relationship and then its a very good, fun, sexy thing! make sure you discuss it at different times, in different moods so you know better about how you feel about it
10/15/2010
Contributor: GeekWife GeekWife
I have fantasized about it, but I don't know how I'd feel about watching GeekHubbs be with anyone else. So we opted for a DP toy and that did it for me
10/15/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
Nah, not something I could do. I'm faithfully married to the only person I've ever been with. Honestly, I simply can't even imagine sharing myself or my husband with anyone else. Just isn't for me.
10/15/2010
Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
I'm married to a man, loved threesomes (with other women) when we started dating, was worried the format would change or ::gasp:: it would never happen again after getting married. Not the case. We just have an awesome time when it happens and in the best of situations. I am allowed to continue experimeting with the bisexuality that he recognized and encouraged was there under rules that are best for us to rule out jealousy or awkwardness.
10/16/2010
Contributor: trios trios
Quote:
Originally posted by CutiePatootie
I'm married to a man, loved threesomes (with other women) when we started dating, was worried the format would change or ::gasp:: it would never happen again after getting married. Not the case. We just have an awesome time when it happens and ... more
You are lucky cutiepatootie! We live vicariously through you!
10/20/2010
Contributor: wolf's lil red temptation wolf's lil red temptation
Quote:
Originally posted by Persephone Nightmare
I am monogamous and feel no need to have a three-some, four-some, or any other kind of "-some". I don't think I could trust some other person enough to "let them into my relationship" with my Fiancé and I. That and also ... more
I agree with you 100% we've considered it as a fantasy but never as a reality. Since my fiance and I have been dating since high school and we're each other's firsts, neither of us wants to bring another person into our lives sexually. And as strange as it sounds, especially in this day and age, I think it would be nice to just have one partner sexually in my life. Also, it's less to worry about STD and infection wise. Not to mention that it would be so odd if it were with someone of the same sex for either of us since we are both heterosexually inclined. Besides I think whatever demands I have sexually that he can't satisfy, I'm sure there is a toy for that, but it is a short list of things he can't do alone for me when it comes to sex. And considering the only reason I was interested in a 3-some was for DP, we are getting a toy to satisfy that need.

So yeah I totally get where you are coming from and I support that you've both made that choice together. However I am not saying that I judge others who do participate, also like you said, it's good for some but not what we are into.
10/29/2010
Contributor: Raggedy Andie Raggedy Andie
Quote:
Originally posted by Jobthingy
In my single days I had a few threesomes. The funny part is that in them all the guy couldnt keep it up. Intimidation set in and he pretty much sat at the sidelines.

Now we are in the lifestyle so moresomes happen often. We dont full swap, we ... more
I have never had that experience J..

I have had MMF, FFF and FFM and I have loved them all. As long as you and your partners have the right mind-set going into it, I think it can be perfectly ejoyable.
10/29/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
It actually took me a while to get into threesomes. Sometimes trying to find the right couple to play with can be a problem.
10/29/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
I don't like the phrasing of the answer I felt cornered into choosing. I think one option should be: Never tried it and am just not interested.

I don't "hate" it. To each their own. My wish for all of us is to know our limitations and how to live healthy and happy lives -- as well as learning to be honest and respectful not only to others, but to ourselves. To thine own self be true.
10/29/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Voted "never tried it, hate it" but "never tried it, don't want to" would be better.
I feel the same way. I don't know that I "hate it" because I've never tried it, but I know it wouldn't be beneficial to my relationship.
10/29/2010
Contributor: trios trios
Threesomes are something that I wish I had tried earlier in life, before I settled down forever. Now it is not an option.
10/29/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Voted "Never/hate" and "Never/Want" because it is one of my biggest fantasies and it would definitely have to be FMF for me to even consider it. But I'm terrified to bring someone into our marriage and probably wouldn't do it because I hate the idea of one fantasy ruining our marriage/intimacy/trus t that we've built over the years.
11/01/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
Tried it, loved it at the time, but never again.
11/04/2010
Contributor: mnc5051 mnc5051
Its not worth it, never has been never will. it messes things up, not to mention makes your partner worry you have feelings for that third person... some ppl can deal with the feelings others cant, its a fun experience in some ways but horrific in others.
11/04/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
We're poly, but even so it's a rare thing. We definitely prefer the one-on-one thing, but a good DP every now and then makes things interesting.
11/06/2010
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I'm married, but regardless, it's still a nice fantasy to have though. I think that's a good reason not to do it too. If you have a threesome or moresome and it doesn't turn out quite how you'd like, then it might spoil it for you from then on.
11/16/2010
Contributor: Anne Ardeur Anne Ardeur
I'm kind of interested in the idea, partner is not. It's a nice fantasy, but I'd be worried that the reality wouldn't live up and/or that it would cause hurt feeling, worries about inadequacy, etc.
11/16/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Sera
Do you have a thing for threesomes, if you've tried them? Have you ever had one?
it was b4 marriage and all in good fun!
11/16/2010