I agree 100%

And two vaginas and a penis is equal, lol.

Personally, I wouldn't turn it into a "thing". For example, he wants a threesome so to surprise him, I plan it out for his birthday. Thats just weird and unsafe.

If he was really serious about having a threesome and I was interested in it too, then we would do a lot of safety checking, lots of conversations on rules, and expectations, etc. It wouldnt be thing, about "hey, why don't I do this for him to please him, or win him back" cause thats what the birthday thing seems to be. Its wrong and weird to me.

no. i can't stand the thought of watching someone else touch my bf the way i do. & i wouldn't want anyone else touching me the way he does or seeing me naked. that's for his eye's only. but that's just how i am.

I agree! I couldn't share mine with anybody! I wouldn't ever share myself with others either. It's a respect and love thing, to me. I can say though, just because it's his b-day don't mean I can't beat his ass off! If my partner ever had the stupidity to want someone else, he'd be hitting the road. 5 years or one day, I don't put up with that. You're either with me and only me or you don't get me at all!

Uuuuhhhh - huuuh! lol