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Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
A fantasy cannot be wrong. It's not an action. That is like having a dream that is "wrong". You either enjoy it or you don't but you didn't cause a change in the world, so you didn't do either good or bad.

As for me personally, yes I do have rape fantasies sometimes and even like to act them out with my partner in a playful sort of way where we start off lightly and it escalates as we each push the other person more.
04/17/2012
Contributor: Innocent Mathias Innocent Mathias
i love it as a make sub i love when my wife forces me
11/19/2012
Contributor: BornInApril BornInApril
Ive always had this fantasy, though obviously would never want it to happen. I wrote a rape story on a website that is really hot but at the same time a lot of people said it was violent and made them sad. Writing it kind of released the fantasy I was having and if anyone wants read message me and I'll send the link.
11/21/2012
Contributor: bronzelotus bronzelotus
Honestly it's probably my biggest fantasy. Not one I've ever been able to act out (I mean, how do you explain THAT to a date?) But definitely my go-to fantasy when I'm on my own.
03/06/2013
Contributor: gothicwhispers gothicwhispers
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Originally posted by Trashley
I love rape fantasy! I'm such a businesswoman and so in control and so manipulating that when I get into bed, I just want to let go. It's the hottest thing to me to be vulnerable like that.. plus, I like the fear and pain and all the ... more
Yeah, pretty much this. I've had a rape fantasy for a long time though- personally, I think it is because I am a very controlling person in actuality... that's just how I am. My husband has no problem with physically restraining me and going for it, but I really kind of would like to actually experience it in a more real way. I've always liked the idea of being roofied or something. I may be fucked up, but whatever.
03/06/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I have them...like many people I feel guilty, but I can't help it. It turns me on like nothing else. I abhor rape IRL, just for the record.
03/07/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I have them too and it seems I've had non-consent/consent fantasies since I was real young. Then came the molestation and that kinda fuelled it.
03/14/2013
Contributor: Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
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Originally posted by irishlove
I do but I don't act on them. We tried once but it ended badly. I have had bad experiences as child with adults so I feel like these fantasies are a reflection on what happened. The one time we tried it I cried because I really felt like it was ... more
I'm right there with you.
03/14/2013
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I know that people like to have some kink and are into bondage, but do you ever have rape fantasies? Do you think they are wrong?
No rape, but an agreed upon gang bang.
03/14/2013
Contributor: shnsmth6 shnsmth6
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I do and I definitely don't.
I have read a bunch on this, many psychologists agree that the rape fantasy is just a scenario in which you can approach and experience things that would normally be considered taboo but with no underlying guilt. ... more
i agree
03/15/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I know that people like to have some kink and are into bondage, but do you ever have rape fantasies? Do you think they are wrong?
i don't think this would be very enjoyable. but you never know until you try it
03/15/2013
Contributor: JinxPinx JinxPinx
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I do and I definitely don't.
I have read a bunch on this, many psychologists agree that the rape fantasy is just a scenario in which you can approach and experience things that would normally be considered taboo but with no underlying guilt. ... more
Well.. I'm glad there's atleast a reasonable explanation for it so I don't feel as bad! 'Cause yeah, fantasy is one thing but real rape NO. Especially since I know if I were actually raped it certainly wouldn't be my dream guy!
05/06/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
not for me
05/06/2013