Being laughed at by a guy for masturbating

Contributor: KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
If women didn't masturbate the there would be no sex toys. I hate when boys think like that as if women only have sex as a duty and have no interest in pleasure.
05/06/2012
Contributor: edenx edenx
key…"had" a boyfriend

what a dummy
05/06/2012
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
You poor thing. That's a shame.

Most of the men that are attracted to women that I've spoken to love this, and I as a queer woman also love the thought of another woman touching herself. I've heard of people condemning masturbation (which is a terrible shame), but never of people being made fun of for it.

I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you're in a better situation now.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
I wish my wife would masturbate more. She only does it in front of me as foreplay. I would be turned on if she did it while I was at work
07/18/2013
Contributor: underHim underHim
What an ass, he sounds like he had some really old fashioned ideas about women and sex. "Wait, what.. women like sex... really?" Duh
07/18/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
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Originally posted by Petite Valentine
I feel sorry for whatever girl has the misfortune to end up his wife.
Agreed!
07/31/2013
Contributor: SecretCouple SecretCouple
He must of thought this because he was not with many women who were sexual and spent a lot of time masturbating himself! It is an EXTREME turn on to watch my wife masturbate with her fingers or a toy. It is even sexier when she does it just to tease me and make me watch!
07/31/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
I once had a sort-of boyfriend who could not stop laughing when I confessed to him that I masturbated. He seemed to hold the opinion that this is something men do, and any woman who masturbates is a strange bird. Of course this pissed me off, because ... more
Never had a partner laugh because I masturbate or find it weird...mostly they seem to be turned on by it.
08/01/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
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Originally posted by underHim
Guy sounds like an idiot.
I concur
08/01/2013
Contributor: 31 Flavors 31 Flavors
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Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
Thank you for the positive responses, everyone! Even at the time, I had an inkling that HE was the one who was off-base and that most guys probably would find even the thought of me masturbating to be very erotic. I'm glad I was right
Extremely erotic. )
10/14/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I'm very careful who I talk to about my sex life. so no, no one has ever laughed at anything of a vulnerable nature I've shared w/ them. I have never masturbated for my lover to watch either. however, idea of it is enticing.
10/14/2013
Contributor: UnknownNobody UnknownNobody
I've always enjoyed watching my partner, male or female, masturbate.
Especially when I'm in a new in a sexual relationship I can learn what he or she enjoys so that I can be a better lover.
10/14/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
Very lucky I've never had this happen, and my current boy especially is pretty enthusiastic about the fact that I masturbate. If a guy likes you they should be pretty happy that you're happy and pleasured. Even more so if they get to watch you do so or help out.
10/14/2013
Contributor: HappyInNJ HappyInNJ
I just can't rap my mind around a guy not wanting to watch a woman pleasure herself.

I think it's the best way to learn how to better pleasure a woman.
10/24/2013
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
I really hope that guy's either learned a lot or stayed as single as he deserves to be. Dudes have such a self centric view of sex it's absurd.
08/29/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by HappyInNJ
I just can't rap my mind around a guy not wanting to watch a woman pleasure herself.

I think it's the best way to learn how to better pleasure a woman.
Agreed! Plus it's just plane old hot to watch. If you really pay attention, you can learn a lot.
08/31/2015