Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I feel about it.

I think there's also something about "marking" your lover that guys find sexy with facials or cumming on their partner. At least, I like to feel that I've been marked as his. He's indicated that he's doing that to me when he does cum on me, though that was a development that came later, because I was the one that told him I wanted him to cum on me in the first place.

Facials and cumming in your partner's mouth have been around long before pornography. Even if you saw it in a porn and got turned on by it, seeing it in pornography isn't enough to make it something you want--you have to be turned on by it, obviously. I think most men (and a lot of women) are visual...and what a visual it is, to watch yourself climax all over your partner. I like watching the moment of ejaculation, myself. It's a huge turn on, and makes me feel awesome to know that I made him feel that kind of pleasure. less