Silly question perhaps, but I'm just wondering
Do you stop calling it a "fantasy" once you've fulfilled it?
01/06/2011
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I don't think it's silly. I think it's a good question. Personally, I'm not 100% sure. I guess in referring to the fulfillment you would still call it a fantasy. But it is no longer a fantasy that you still have and is unfulfilled. Know what I mean? LOL!
So I'm voting "other". Though the option is not there.
Good luck with this poll. I look forward to reading the responses.
So I'm voting "other". Though the option is not there.
Good luck with this poll. I look forward to reading the responses.
01/06/2011
I would say "yes." If it's been fulfilled it would then be reality, not fantasy.
01/06/2011
well you can fantasize about a fulfilled fantasy!
01/06/2011
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I've done that. There have been nights that have been so hot, that just thinking about them the next day literally sends jolts through me. LOL!
Originally posted by
sophie2229
well you can fantasize about a fulfilled fantasy!
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This, and you can have reoccurring fantasies of the same basic principle, but involving different places/people/things.
Originally posted by
sophie2229
well you can fantasize about a fulfilled fantasy!
01/06/2011
once i got to live out one of mine, i still say it is a fantasy
01/06/2011
I put no because I think some fantasies continue after they've been fulfilled once such as having a threesome perhaps while others may be a one time get it out of the way kinda fantasy like having sex on a castle. So yes and no depending on if you continue to fantasize about doing it again.
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This probably describes what I'm thinking better.
Originally posted by
Annemarie
This, and you can have reoccurring fantasies of the same basic principle, but involving different places/people/things.
01/06/2011
Once it becomes "real" it's no longer a fantasy.
01/06/2011
I voted no - it remains a fantasy. My reasoning is that I'm assuming that the act remains relatively rare and highly exciting. But if it becomes routine, then yes it's no loner a fantasy.
01/06/2011
I voted no because there isn't an other. It really would depend on the outcome of the fantasy. If it was good why would it not stay a fresh fantasy? If it wasn't good you wouldn't keep having a fantasy about it so no. Gotta agree too if it becomes routine it isn't really a fantasy either cuz yeah it becomes normal.
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This is why I voted no to the question.
Originally posted by
sophie2229
well you can fantasize about a fulfilled fantasy!
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I agree.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
I voted no - it remains a fantasy. My reasoning is that I'm assuming that the act remains relatively rare and highly exciting. But if it becomes routine, then yes it's no loner a fantasy.
It can remain a fantasy.
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Personally, even if it is fulfilled it is still a fantasy in my book.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Silly question perhaps, but I'm just wondering
01/06/2011
always thought as a fantasy as a sexual thought
01/06/2011
I think so.
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I'm with ya NuMe!
Originally posted by
removedacnt
I don't think it's silly. I think it's a good question. Personally, I'm not 100% sure. I guess in referring to the fulfillment you would still call it a fantasy. But it is no longer a fantasy that you still have and is unfulfilled.
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I don't think it's silly. I think it's a good question. Personally, I'm not 100% sure. I guess in referring to the fulfillment you would still call it a fantasy. But it is no longer a fantasy that you still have and is unfulfilled. Know what I mean? LOL!
So I'm voting "other". Though the option is not there.
Good luck with this poll. I look forward to reading the responses. less
So I'm voting "other". Though the option is not there.
Good luck with this poll. I look forward to reading the responses. less
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It is a good question i had to stop and think. I think you can still fantasize about a fantasy even after.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Silly question perhaps, but I'm just wondering
01/06/2011
If I fulfilled a fantasy, I think I'd still fantasize about it but not CALL it a fantasy. As silly as that is.
01/06/2011
I love this question, and I love the responses! I have to agree with some of the other posters, that you can fantasize about things you've done.
There are several fantasies I've fulfilled, and still think about and want to do again, and there are several interactions I've had that I constantly fantasize about... love it!
There are several fantasies I've fulfilled, and still think about and want to do again, and there are several interactions I've had that I constantly fantasize about... love it!
01/06/2011
I think you can still call a fantasy a fantasy even after you experience it, especially if you want to do it again. I see your point though. Maybe it's a variation on a fantasy at that point....or maybe just fantastic sex!
01/06/2011
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Thanks! I too love all the responses and find the near 50/50% poll results fascinating!
Originally posted by
Lucidity
I love this question, and I love the responses! I have to agree with some of the other posters, that you can fantasize about things you've done.
There are several fantasies I've fulfilled, and still think about and want to do again, ... more
There are several fantasies I've fulfilled, and still think about and want to do again, ... more
I love this question, and I love the responses! I have to agree with some of the other posters, that you can fantasize about things you've done.
There are several fantasies I've fulfilled, and still think about and want to do again, and there are several interactions I've had that I constantly fantasize about... love it! less
There are several fantasies I've fulfilled, and still think about and want to do again, and there are several interactions I've had that I constantly fantasize about... love it! less
01/07/2011
To me, for something to be a fantasy, you can not have done it before. If you have done it and still feel the same desire toward it, I would then call it a fetish.
01/07/2011
I'm with the crowd that thinks you can still fantasize about a fulfilled fantasy, because it can, in most cases, always happen again, and you can fantasize about the next time it happens.
01/18/2011
I think it can still be a fantasy as long as it can happen again
01/19/2011
yep
01/19/2011
Eh to me, fantasizing doesn't always mean longing after something you haven't had. It also means wishing for something you want to have again, or replaying something you've done in your mind. But what do I know?
01/19/2011
I think it depends, but yes, I stop calling it that. That doesn't mean I stop fantasizing about it, I just consider fantasies to have not taken place (Yet!).
01/20/2011
I don't really have many fantasies per say (maybe I'm boring) I think of it more as curiosities or the bucket list. When one gets crossed off it's just something I've done.
01/20/2011