we go to parties with similarly aged couples(couples only). they have some face control which keeps the "talent" on a relatively high level. We never had any pressure in or out of the bedroom, you can see pushy coming from a mile a way.
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Swingers Clubs: Your Thoughts?
11/01/2011
Im curious, just ot sure if it would be awkward
11/05/2011
We are in Canada and I think the legalities around on-premise clubs are somewhat different, but we do have a full range of qualities (from sketchy to delightful) in our swing clubs, and also have fetish clubs that allow on-premise play. Also many clubs have nights just for particular preferences: young swingers, bisexual, etc.
Our usual habit, when we go to the clubs vs. private dates/parties, is to go with a small group of close friends. We ignore the creepy people, dance our asses off, and then go to the play area with our awesome friends who we already love and trust!
Our usual habit, when we go to the clubs vs. private dates/parties, is to go with a small group of close friends. We ignore the creepy people, dance our asses off, and then go to the play area with our awesome friends who we already love and trust!
11/22/2011
I really like them, but I'm a big fan of anonymous and group sex, so!
11/22/2011
Interesting Poll
12/11/2011
We don't have any clubs where I'm at, just private parties.
12/13/2011
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I just find the whole idea gross =/
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Valyn
What are your thoughts on swingers clubs?
01/06/2012
...No...but thanks away lol.
01/12/2012
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kinda scared of the thought...
Originally posted by
Valyn
What are your thoughts on swingers clubs?
01/23/2012
Never have, but would like to.
02/04/2012
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no way
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Valyn
What are your thoughts on swingers clubs?
02/22/2012
I voted other because the first one was only half right. I would say no way, but I don't think it's for crazy orgies. I'm just not into it. Neither I nor my man wish to share or be with anyone else.
02/23/2012
we are soft swingers and yes the clubs are a little creepy, but the parties absolutely rock. we have met some amazing people in the lifestyle, so much more fun
03/09/2012
I love how so many people who answered the pole would be willing to try one. Ah, the people of Eden.
03/21/2012
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Not my thing, but if it's yours, awesome.
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Valyn
What are your thoughts on swingers clubs?
04/22/2012
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I've been to a handful but its just not our thing, we're poly in the committed multiple relationship kinda way not in the casual sex with strangers kinda way, the swinging scene also IMO is very unfriendly to queers and rather male-centric
Originally posted by
Valyn
What are your thoughts on swingers clubs?
08/26/2012
try everything once, right? ;D
08/26/2012
I'd love to go to a swingers or even and BDSM gathering but I think I spooked myself when I was looking for one in my area. I came across this website for a club in my area and they had a video. So I watched it. Now every time I think of going to one or exploring the internet to find one again I think of creepy people who look old enough to be my grandparents. Can't do it.
08/28/2012
I'm interested in them, but not for a few years. It would definitely take a lot of confidence and trust to do that!
11/01/2012
I've always been curious.
11/01/2012
I personally wouldn't do it, I don't think I could handle that without getting jealous. But I have nothing against it. Just because I'm not into it doesn't mean it's wrong. Everyone is into different things Plus it sounds fun, if that was something I was into lol.
11/02/2012
I've been to a couple of private swingers parties and tend to feel out of my depth at them. I prefer fetish nights.
11/11/2012
I love the concept, and as long as they aren't creepy and pushy, I think I would love the experience!
11/21/2012
Interesting idea...been considered in the past, but my wife and I decided against it.
01/12/2013
I would like to attend a party without participating
03/09/2013
I would check a club out.
06/13/2013