Me? My partner is in training for a full-time career while also working two part-time jobs and studying for aforementioned training.

Before that, it was I was "too available with no thrill of the chase."

Before that, depression due to difficulty finding a job/being the breadwinner.

Before that? afraid of hurting me (he was rough before I was ready and didn't use lube and it freaked him all out).

Which leaves about nine months of really fantastic sex and then sporadic, random quickies.

Sorry! venting. It is just too much, sometimes, and you hear everywhere in the media that if a guy doesn't want it from you, he's getting elsewhere. Or he's addicted to porn--which isn't the case here because he says (and I believe him because he's no liar and is a man of his word anyway) he does it once a week generally or LESS. He's not yet 31.

Thinking of getting his testosterone levels tested. His body composition changed. My doctor (who is also his, which sounds weird but it's a natural doctor, an ND, who is amazing and unconventional) agrees and talked with him about it. However insurance doesn't cover a dime of the really sensitive testing of hormones, so it's hundreds of dollars for one small test, up front, cash. Yergh.

My own testosterone is LOW, and I have a slew of ridiculous sydromes with which I've been diagnosed and they make me achey and exhausted and irritable but I still get it up (in a manner of speaking!) for him, so I feel resentful