I met my partner when I was in high school. We didn't start dating then, but I knew about him. He was part of the same circle of friends as I was & I actually was dating a friend of his at the time we first met. The night we did actually have a conversation/meet was at a graduation party at a friends house. I had a killer migraine & was nearly sick so I wouldn't drink & he asked if I wanted to ride with him to the store. I thought it was a little creepy so I said now & a while later he showed up with a BC powder for my migraine! How sweet! So, I gagged as I took the powder with a beer & then started drinking pretty heavily. Soon, I was pretty lit & started chatting. There was an older man there who was a lot creepy actually he was a friend's ex-father in-law & he kept insisting on "helping me to the powder room to pee!" & as he pushed me through to the powder room, I brushed my current BF's arm & gave him an "I'm scared!" look & he took over from there & told the man I could make it own my own. Well, the next day he'd gone home as did I, but I really wanted to see him again so I went back to the friend's house to see if he was around. He wasn't.
When I got back home an old friend called & said he'd been looking all over for me since we met the night before & wanted to see me! How cool? So to another party we went. We actually hooked up the second night & we've been together ever since!
I didn't know a lot about him when we first hooked up & wasn't sure that I wanted it to be a relationship, but as I got to know how kind hearted he was, I was extremely drawn to him (I mean it actually turned me on!) I never told him just how much I liked it that he was so kind & always stopping to give an old lady a ride until 2 days ago! He had stopped us to give an old lady a ride to the grocery store (we didn't know her) and back home which took an hour. As we were driving her hat flew off & landed on the road. He stopped, got out & gave her hat back. & this is 5 years of us being together & I told him those 2 days ago that it really turned me on that he was always going so far out of his way to help people. He said "I'll drive old people all the way to Atlanta if it really turns you on!" Ha Ha.
I was attracted to him mostly because there was something mysterious about him & he was very nice looking, then even more attracted to him when I learned how precious he was! Any man who'll give my cat CPR, is a real good man in my eyes! Lol. (He actually gave my kitty CPR when we were first together)