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Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
so i've noticed in my years that on more than the rare occasion, my vagina seems to talk for me.

i'll be in the middle of a deep dicking down, and the words 'i love you' come blurting out of my mouth, sometimes for the first time. in the middle of sex! something about my g-spot or 'something' being stimulated brings this feeling of real, physiological, emotional closeness. and makes me say the three little big words.

has this ever happened to you?

thanks for sharing.

alice.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
this has happened to me before, maybe a couple times
8
this has never happened to me before
36
this has happened on more than the rare occasion
3
this has happened to someone i know
1
Total votes: 48 (48 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
so i've noticed in my years that on more than the rare occasion, my vagina seems to talk for me.

i'll be in the middle of a deep dicking down, and the words 'i love you' come blurting out of my mouth, sometimes for the first ... more
it has never happened to me but my sister seems to tell every guy she sleeps with that she loves them.
11/23/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by poetprincess
it has never happened to me but my sister seems to tell every guy she sleeps with that she loves them.
ha. yep. i've kinda been that girl.
11/23/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Huh, this has never happened to me, nor has it ever almost happened to me. But I take my "I love you"s very, very seriously. Those words never just come blurting out of me without lots of forethought.
11/23/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
i have random "i love you" attacks that seem to pop up when i think about anything that embarrasses me (i wonder if it's like a weird form of tourett's or something) but not usually during sex. i love you never usually happens during sex at all, come to think of it.
11/23/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
No, my past traumas have prevented me from connecting emotionally with sexual encounters.
11/23/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
My cunt doesn't make me say it, my heart does.
11/23/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
This happened with my ex.
11/23/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
It's one of the ways a primal reaction manifests ... some get more sexually violent/enthusiastic, others start crying, some vocalize it (the 'I love you'), etc. It might be some deep psychological rubbish, likely related to our stone age ancestors and the forming of families ...

I felt like wanting to say it when I was with Mulder, but I suppressed it because I knew that I was emotionally vulnerable and getting over my ex-husband ... and I also knew I was mistaking gratitude for love at that point - after having a decade-long celibate marriage I was VERY grateful to be sexually-desired again.
11/23/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by jedent
i have random "i love you" attacks that seem to pop up when i think about anything that embarrasses me (i wonder if it's like a weird form of tourett's or something) but not usually during sex. i love you never usually happens ... more
lmao... 'i love you' tourett's. way better than yelling 'SHITBAG!' or 'BOB SAGGET!' in the middle of sex.


i love you never comes during sex at all for you? can i ask if you've ever had a sexual relationship w/someone you were really in love with and trusted?


for me, it comes often during sex with my current boyfriend. it's not just the vagina speaking, i dont think. it's at least a bit of the vagina speaking, but i do truly love him. dick in vagina or no.
11/23/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Willow Wand
No, my past traumas have prevented me from connecting emotionally with sexual encounters.


*extends a hug to you.

fuck. i'm sorry. thats some very difficult shit to go through. i know it does get better over time and can. have you tried counseling at all? i know it's really helping me for the same reason, right now. i mean, nothing is totally better. but i am hopeful.
11/23/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
It's one of the ways a primal reaction manifests ... some get more sexually violent/enthusiastic, others start crying, some vocalize it (the 'I love you'), etc. It might be some deep psychological rubbish, likely related to our stone age ... more
a decade-long celibate marriage? wow! thats impressive.


and yes! your explanation makes total sense. thanks for responding. i dig your thoughts.
11/23/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Uh, yes. This has happened to me on more than one occasion. If the boy in question and I were strictly casual I'd have to give a "listen, please take that as an "I love your cock" rather than an "I love you"" speech afterward.

The much more awkward situation is when it happens with somebody with whom it's not appropriate for me to be in love with *yet*, but we're headed down that road. It's harder to say "hold on, I didn't mean that yet..."

I kind of... don't really have my brain in my head when I'm having sex. It's not really fair to hold me accountable for what I say
11/23/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
Uh, yes. This has happened to me on more than one occasion. If the boy in question and I were strictly casual I'd have to give a "listen, please take that as an "I love your cock" rather than an "I love you"" speech ... more
amen sister. same here.
11/23/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
"i love you never comes during sex at all for you? can i ask if you've ever had a sexual relationship w/someone you were really in love with and trusted?"

Sure, ask away!

Yes I have, I am now in fact in that type of sexual relationship. I'm with someone I trust and love more than anyone I've ever known, but for some reason those words just don't come to me. Very few words actually come to me during sex(mostly "oh god", my man just informed me - LOL), especially if I'm feeling extra emotional over it - words in general come even less. I have been known to cry a little bit from the intensity of the feelings - and that's all from feelings of love that come out and overwhelm me.
11/23/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
"i love you never comes during sex at all for you? can i ask if you've ever had a sexual relationship w/someone you were really in love with and trusted?"

Sure, ask away!

Yes I have, I am now in fact in that type of ... more
i was responding to jedent's comment about it never coming to her during sex.

but i think your experience is the norm, as well. guess i'm the odd woman out again!
11/23/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
a decade-long celibate marriage? wow! thats impressive.


and yes! your explanation makes total sense. thanks for responding. i dig your thoughts.
Not really impressive, just sad. Never settle because you think nothing will ever come along. Lesson learned? Good.

(But being able to let go and say 'I love you' in the throes of sex still really appeals to me. It'll have to wait until I'm sure of where it's coming from is all.)
11/24/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole


*extends a hug to you.

fuck. i'm sorry. thats some very difficult shit to go through. i know it does get better over time and can. have you tried counseling at all? i know it's really helping me for the same reason, right now. ... more
No, I am not one for counseling. I am ok, I feel like I have moved on, but I've never been able to connect sex with love, and probably never will. Kissing on the other hand, that means I love you!
11/24/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
"i love you never comes during sex at all for you? can i ask if you've ever had a sexual relationship w/someone you were really in love with and trusted?"

Sure, ask away!

Yes I have, I am now in fact in that type of ... more
HAHA, "Oh God!" are my words of choice as well.
11/24/2011
Contributor: BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
Usually the only thing that comes out of my mouth during sex is moans.
11/25/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
so i've noticed in my years that on more than the rare occasion, my vagina seems to talk for me.

i'll be in the middle of a deep dicking down, and the words 'i love you' come blurting out of my mouth, sometimes for the first ... more
Not yet!
11/26/2011
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
I've only told that to my boyfriend during sex, never to somebody that was new in my life.
02/02/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
I've done this, and I really didn't mean it....
02/02/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
so i've noticed in my years that on more than the rare occasion, my vagina seems to talk for me.

i'll be in the middle of a deep dicking down, and the words 'i love you' come blurting out of my mouth, sometimes for the first ... more
ive been there, i think it has to do with him being inside you and a special closeness..
02/03/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
ive been there, i think it has to do with him being inside you and a special closeness..
precisely, same way for me.
03/07/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
so i've noticed in my years that on more than the rare occasion, my vagina seems to talk for me.

i'll be in the middle of a deep dicking down, and the words 'i love you' come blurting out of my mouth, sometimes for the first ... more
This has definitely happened to me!
06/03/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
Anyone can "love" someone else when they're about to orgasm.
06/03/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
This has definitely happened to me!
really! thanks. now i don't feel so weird.
06/03/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
Has NEVER happened during sex with someone I hadn't already said I love you to every time me and the boyfriend have sex there is ALWAYS I love yous but we say without sexual acts being involved
06/03/2012