The New Intimacy

Have any of you slipped up once and made a mistake of sleeping with someone else while in a LTR

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
That's what happened with my first child. Isn't that how everyone gets pregnant?

TOO FUNNY
07/27/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I feel the same way that you do. I've never done it, my husband has never done it, but he's had more than one girlfriend do it to him. I really don't see a way to "accidentally" end up having sex with somebody while ... more
Dye my cat pink and you had better have been having a psychotic break >.< LOL 'Course to catch my cat and dye him pink you'd HAVE to be psychotically ill or suicidal..

I can understand making a horrible mistake and a poor choice. I hope that I am never faced with that choice...so far I have not been.
07/27/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Cheating is cheating, but we are all human and things can happen. If you feel "terrible about it", the key is to not let it happen again. Hurting your partner by letting them know serves no real purpose.
I have to agree with this....assuaging your own conscience by devastating your partner serves no purpose. It's YOUR guilt YOU live with it!
07/27/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Did I tell you about that one time a stubbed my toe and then cheated on my girlfriend? I gotta be more careful!

I'm just messin' with you

If someone tells you they "slipped up" and slept with someone...they're ... more
~nods yup stubbing one's toe DOES throb so....
07/27/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
how exactly is having sex with someone "slipping up"? It seems like a conscious decision to me.
07/27/2011
Contributor: ❦Angel Of Music❦ ❦Angel Of Music❦
I have never "slipped up". If it happened, it was for a reason.
07/27/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
Oops! Sorry honey, I fell face-first on his cock!

Yeah, no.
07/29/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I have cheated in the past, but I've never done it and not told anyone and never did it again.
03/13/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I blurred the emotional line once, but it woke me up and made me more devoted to my guy than ever.
03/13/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I've cheated on my hubby once but I did tell him about it and we worked through it. I never "slipped up and cheated" or didn't tell anyone about it. I have never done it again since then, it's been over 8 years.
03/13/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
I don't think I ever could just because I can imagine how terrible it would feel if it ever happened to me. That would just always be in the back of my mind.
03/13/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
I've never cheated and I would never be with a cheater. Honestly if someone cheated on me, I don't know what I would do, but I would never go into a relationship when I knew that person had cheated before
03/15/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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Originally posted by Ansley
I'm with those that say you don't just slip up and sleep with someone else. The intent was already there or the person completely lost their mind and went for it anyway and didn't think about the consequences. And in my household the ... more
Very true
03/15/2012
Contributor: Trepier Trepier
It has never happened to me and I have never done it. Can be thankful for that.
03/16/2012
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
Never ever. And if someone did cheat on me, they'd be dumped right away. I wouldn't put up with that. I feel like if they do it once, they could do it again.
10/11/2012
Contributor: T&L T&L
Yes I did and I knew what I was doing the whole time and I felt bad afterwards, however, it was not a "slip" a slip is when you slip on a wet floor or ice. If you sleep with someone else while in a LTR you are fully aware of what you are doing, don't kid yourself!!!!
10/11/2012
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
never.
10/11/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
Never. I can see maybe being overly emotionally intimate with someone outside the relationship by accident - maybe times have been rocky and you just feel you need a shoulder to cry on, and you break certain seals of privacy with someone you feel close to, maybe even attracted to.

I can even see slipping up and getting closed in for a kiss or a cuddle when you're in a relationship where doing that with another person is not okay - possibly enjoying it and while cutting them off before they go further, not cutting them off when they go for a physical intimacy in the first place.

But sex is a pretty big act, takes more than a few seconds, and is something you're going to be fully aware of doing.
10/11/2012