How long have you and your significant other gone without fighting?

Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
we've only had a handful of serious arguments and its always been about the same thing. We've fight about stupid things every now and then like every few months nothing serious.
07/09/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
We normally go a few months. But we will snap at eachother a little sometimes and then be over it.
07/09/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
A couple of months.
07/16/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
We bicker constantly. I don't mind at all.
07/16/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
It depends. We don't really have huge fights where any yelling or anger is involved. We have small quarrels and get frustrated, but hardly anything more than a simple argument. I hate fighting and try to avoid it at all costs. We get along well and have never said hurtful, hateful things and that helps majorly. We of course hurt each other's feelings sometimes, but we don't use hateful words like "I hate you." Or calling names or anything like that.
07/18/2011
Contributor: SaMiKaY SaMiKaY
I can honestly say we haven't argued since we got together!
10/13/2011
Contributor: KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
We dont really fight often, so we had a major fight about 1 year ago.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
fighting and arguing are two different things (to me anyway) Arguing doesn't last very long, and it's usually when two people disagree on something and bicker a little bit... it can LEAD to fighting, (yelling, cursing, silent treatments, stupid stuff) but I don't think the two are the same.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
I think that this answer is based on your definition of "fighting" or "arguing". We have disagreements once in a while about little things, where I'll say something like "I just want to let you know, I feel like when I ask you to clean the bathroom, I shouldn't have to specify each part I want cleaned you should know to clean all of it" and constantly have to repeat myself on what I want done which irritates me. I don't raise my voice or anything, and never accuse but he always gets upset anyway lol.

THEN we have had maybe 3 major blow-ups in the last year, one of which he was sleepwalking and sleeparguing so I don't think that even counts. The other two I just needed to go for a walk to cool off and the other we just separated for about 15 minutes to cool off.
10/13/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
We don't fight. We've had a few minor arguments, but mostly we work things out calmly and rationally when we don't agree.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Couple days, we just both have stubborn attitudes. That makes us fight a lot more often.
10/13/2011
Contributor: big b big b
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10/13/2011
Contributor: Nashville Nashville
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Originally posted by ss143
I know every couple has their problems and arguments but I also know some more or less than others. Bf and I in the beginning had an argument once in a while then for a couple of years we fought constantly now we just noticed we haven't had one ... more
When we were trying to conceive our daughter we fought for like 2 years straight. I thought our marriage wouldn't survive. And then we got pregnant and all those feelings of anger and resentment disappeared and we haven't fought at all since April 2010... oh wait, I take that back. We got in one disagreement before the deployment from the stress.

But honestly, we only fight when there are legitimate issues- not petty little nothings. We haven't had a legitimate issue in a long while.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Us? Fight? We don't. She gets grumpy (due to work or other stresses), I give her space to cool off so she doesn't take it out on me.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by ss143
I know every couple has their problems and arguments but I also know some more or less than others. Bf and I in the beginning had an argument once in a while then for a couple of years we fought constantly now we just noticed we haven't had one ... more
I have two very firey relationships so we frequently disagree but we try to do so like mature adults...sometmes we are able to, sometmes not. We do try to solve the issues, though, rather than letting them fester.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Weve never had a "fight", like weve never yelled at each other in the 3 years weve been together. Weve had calm conversations about frustrating things, but even then not often. Were best friends, we laugh all day together.
10/13/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Thank you for all your responses
10/13/2011
Contributor: hem hem
We've been together for a couple years and we haven't had a fight. We're both very talk-about-it types.
10/11/2012
Contributor: butts butts
Sometimes we have "good periods" where we don't fight for weeks, but usually we fight a few times a week, we both get really argumentative.
10/11/2012
Contributor: T&L T&L
We never have fought very much, we are pretty compatible and easy going, however, an occasional fight has happened and yes it is always my fault. My wife is so easy going and loving but that still doesn't stop me from going stupid and saying or doing something to get her upset. We never scream or yell we just disagree vehemently and it never lasts very long, after all, who has the time to fight? Life is way to short for fighting. It usually only takes me a little bit to realize I'm dead wrong and apologize.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
We never have fought. It's great!
10/11/2012