we've only had a handful of serious arguments and its always been about the same thing. We've fight about stupid things every now and then like every few months nothing serious.
How long have you and your significant other gone without fighting?
07/09/2011
We normally go a few months. But we will snap at eachother a little sometimes and then be over it.
07/09/2011
A couple of months.
07/16/2011
We bicker constantly. I don't mind at all.
07/16/2011
It depends. We don't really have huge fights where any yelling or anger is involved. We have small quarrels and get frustrated, but hardly anything more than a simple argument. I hate fighting and try to avoid it at all costs. We get along well and have never said hurtful, hateful things and that helps majorly. We of course hurt each other's feelings sometimes, but we don't use hateful words like "I hate you." Or calling names or anything like that.
07/18/2011
I can honestly say we haven't argued since we got together!
10/13/2011
We dont really fight often, so we had a major fight about 1 year ago.
10/13/2011
fighting and arguing are two different things (to me anyway) Arguing doesn't last very long, and it's usually when two people disagree on something and bicker a little bit... it can LEAD to fighting, (yelling, cursing, silent treatments, stupid stuff) but I don't think the two are the same.
10/13/2011
I think that this answer is based on your definition of "fighting" or "arguing". We have disagreements once in a while about little things, where I'll say something like "I just want to let you know, I feel like when I ask you to clean the bathroom, I shouldn't have to specify each part I want cleaned you should know to clean all of it" and constantly have to repeat myself on what I want done which irritates me. I don't raise my voice or anything, and never accuse but he always gets upset anyway lol.
THEN we have had maybe 3 major blow-ups in the last year, one of which he was sleepwalking and sleeparguing so I don't think that even counts. The other two I just needed to go for a walk to cool off and the other we just separated for about 15 minutes to cool off.
THEN we have had maybe 3 major blow-ups in the last year, one of which he was sleepwalking and sleeparguing so I don't think that even counts. The other two I just needed to go for a walk to cool off and the other we just separated for about 15 minutes to cool off.
10/13/2011
We don't fight. We've had a few minor arguments, but mostly we work things out calmly and rationally when we don't agree.
10/13/2011
Couple days, we just both have stubborn attitudes. That makes us fight a lot more often.
10/13/2011
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10/13/2011
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When we were trying to conceive our daughter we fought for like 2 years straight. I thought our marriage wouldn't survive. And then we got pregnant and all those feelings of anger and resentment disappeared and we haven't fought at all since April 2010... oh wait, I take that back. We got in one disagreement before the deployment from the stress.
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I know every couple has their problems and arguments but I also know some more or less than others. Bf and I in the beginning had an argument once in a while then for a couple of years we fought constantly now we just noticed we haven't had one
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I know every couple has their problems and arguments but I also know some more or less than others. Bf and I in the beginning had an argument once in a while then for a couple of years we fought constantly now we just noticed we haven't had one fight or argument in over two years. So we were curious how long was the longest you never fought?
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But honestly, we only fight when there are legitimate issues- not petty little nothings. We haven't had a legitimate issue in a long while.
10/13/2011
Us? Fight? We don't. She gets grumpy (due to work or other stresses), I give her space to cool off so she doesn't take it out on me.
10/13/2011
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I have two very firey relationships so we frequently disagree but we try to do so like mature adults...sometmes we are able to, sometmes not. We do try to solve the issues, though, rather than letting them fester.
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ss143
I know every couple has their problems and arguments but I also know some more or less than others. Bf and I in the beginning had an argument once in a while then for a couple of years we fought constantly now we just noticed we haven't had one
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I know every couple has their problems and arguments but I also know some more or less than others. Bf and I in the beginning had an argument once in a while then for a couple of years we fought constantly now we just noticed we haven't had one fight or argument in over two years. So we were curious how long was the longest you never fought?
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10/13/2011
Weve never had a "fight", like weve never yelled at each other in the 3 years weve been together. Weve had calm conversations about frustrating things, but even then not often. Were best friends, we laugh all day together.
10/13/2011
Thank you for all your responses
10/13/2011
We've been together for a couple years and we haven't had a fight. We're both very talk-about-it types.
10/11/2012
Sometimes we have "good periods" where we don't fight for weeks, but usually we fight a few times a week, we both get really argumentative.
10/11/2012
We never have fought very much, we are pretty compatible and easy going, however, an occasional fight has happened and yes it is always my fault. My wife is so easy going and loving but that still doesn't stop me from going stupid and saying or doing something to get her upset. We never scream or yell we just disagree vehemently and it never lasts very long, after all, who has the time to fight? Life is way to short for fighting. It usually only takes me a little bit to realize I'm dead wrong and apologize.
10/11/2012
We never have fought. It's great!
10/11/2012
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