How do you prefer to fall asleep with your partner?

Contributor: callsignhusker callsignhusker
Personally, I can't fall asleep WITHOUT my partner. Do you prefer to sleep with your partner or without?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I prefer to sleep alone.
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , skunked , CAKES , Taylor , jessterinthebed
5  (3%)
I prefer to sleep with my partner(s) in the same bed.
cobiffle , Ajax , SerenityRed , NaturalWoman , mandiegk , Solar Ray , potstickers , TheSinDoll , Lummox , SexyStuff , Erotica Explorer , Lady Marmelade , married with children , domistar , LavenderSkies , Airen Wolf , Cream in the Cupcake , tigerkate , Miss Zombie , Lio , Miss T , Joie de Cherresse , Checkmate , Liz2 , pinkcupcakes , DJBounder , np702 , Andromeda , REDRUM , darkkitty , DCorrelle , tickle me pink , Bullfanch , Pixel , darthkitt3n , *HisMrs* , beautiful , PiratePrincess , naughtyjo , sixfootsex , extrafun , BlueDog , Darling Jen , Illusional , P'Gell , liilii080 , Keegski , AngelicaU , jaimijacklin , yes yes yes , SugarAndSpice , slynch , callsignhusker , neon , Love&War , Curves , KennyMister , MaryExy , Madeira , hjtee , Rossie , cburger , amandaco2011 , Miss Anonymous , newfoundlust , StrapOnStud , ac0313 , Fuck it. , Collodion , Pablo F Lleras , daniel and frances , Cedarlooman , Mommy2 , Elias McLovin , kinksters , LennaKieran , ss143 , DTV88 , Rayne Millaray , tffnyandrs , sexygoddess , Devz , meganthomas , AdmNeg , gehuwd , |Scheibe| , Rhazya , Choolz , link82 , ButchAndFemme , PropertyOfPotter , The Curious Couple , LindseyDawn , Starkiller87 , PussyPurr , Lucky21 , froggiemoma , caligaliber , EvilHomer , Charlie Whiskey , Beck , mcl272 , Princess-Kayla ♥ , Squirtz Starz , thisisadeletedaccount , indiechick , butterflygirlxo , Kitten has left the site , Passion plum , Arch600 , gloomybear , Mistress Sassy , bayosgirl , awomeninflames , Sinfully , Alx , Chami , gsfanatic , TheHardOne , solitudinarian , MaeGal , ginainohio , TheirPet , pirata , Femme Mystique , WhoopieDoo , pootpootpoot , giftdgecko
128  (89%)
I prefer to sleep with my partner(s) in different beds.
Other--I will explain below!
ColorSplash , hiroshiro , Shellz31 , Lithaewyn , null , K101 , ThoughtsAblaze , RomanticGoth , AU , Iceness , Tork48309
11  (8%)
Total votes: 144
Poll is closed
03/20/2011
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Contributor: ColorSplash ColorSplash
I dont have partner,Single right now I just wanted to vote.
03/20/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I think it just feels better better when my gf is there with me
03/20/2011
Contributor: hiroshiro hiroshiro
I hate hate hate touching people when I sleep, but I like being able to wake up, roll across the bed and find them. They need to stay on their own damn side while they sleep, though.
03/20/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
There are some nights when I just can not fall asleep until he gets in the bed. He thinks it's ridiculous, and maybe it is, but it's just so much easier to fall asleep if he's there with me.
03/20/2011
Contributor: SerenityRed SerenityRed
I prefer to sleep with my boyfriend. And I have this weird thing where I have to b touching whoever I'm sleeping with at all times. So I'll have a finger touching his back or a foot against his leg. It's comforting.
03/20/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
Quote:
Originally posted by SerenityRed
I prefer to sleep with my boyfriend. And I have this weird thing where I have to b touching whoever I'm sleeping with at all times. So I'll have a finger touching his back or a foot against his leg. It's comforting.
I'm exactly the same. I like my space, but I still need at least some minimal contact.
03/20/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
With my partner... yes.
03/20/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I like The Husband to be in the bed, but not to hog all the room and the covers.
03/20/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Definitely in the same bed!
03/21/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I prefer to sleep alone on a two-person bed. I really need space.
03/21/2011
Contributor: Erotica Explorer Erotica Explorer
I had hoped that, "spooning and slowly softening inside of them" was an option.
03/21/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
naked spooning with me still inside her. that is the best way.
03/21/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
Personally, I can't fall asleep WITHOUT my partner. Do you prefer to sleep with your partner or without?
I love sleeping between both my guys...it's hot as hell (and I mean temperature wise) and the covers frequently get pulled over my head but it's so safe and stuff.
03/21/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't have a partner at the moment but when I did, I prefer that he sleep on his side and give me my space.
I don't want to be held while I'm trying to sleep.
03/21/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I love sleeping between both my guys...it's hot as hell (and I mean temperature wise) and the covers frequently get pulled over my head but it's so safe and stuff.
You're so lucky to be adored by 2 great guys! I envy you! You must be a very special lady!
03/21/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
I sleep with him. It's nice having someone there, and I absolutely love waking up in the morning with him by my side. At night, we fall asleep facing opposite directions most of the time (it gets so hot)... But by morning we are spooning or cuddling.
03/21/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I love sleeping with him. I can't sleep good unless he's next to me.
03/21/2011
Contributor: darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
Personally, I can't fall asleep WITHOUT my partner. Do you prefer to sleep with your partner or without?
King size bed with my partner(s)
03/21/2011
Contributor: REDRUM REDRUM
I'd rather us not be too close though. I like my own little bubble around me when I sleep. Cuddling is a whole different story.
03/21/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
I picked other because although I prefer to sleep in the same bed as him, I'm such a light sleeper that just his breathing can keep me awake for a long time. If he's very exhausted and snoring a lot, I'll go sleep somewhere else haha.

So I prefer to sleep together, but sometimes it's impossible.
03/21/2011
Contributor: null null
I normally love to sleep together, but lately the room's too hot so we sleep separately
03/21/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I prefer having my partner(s) in my bed with me. Keeps the occasional night terror away.
03/21/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I prefer him to sleep with me, but as most of the time it's just a twin bed, sometimes I like it just to myself to have some space! When we have a real bed though, it's always nice to be next to him.
03/22/2011
Contributor: naughtyjo naughtyjo
when my hubby is away, I have ridiculously late nights... it just isn't the same falling asleep without spooning him. yeah, he's away at the moment, I'm yawning as I type.
03/22/2011
Contributor: skunked skunked
I really have to care about someone A LOT to sleep in the same bed as them
03/22/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I do like him sleeping next to me, but I can do both.
03/23/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I prefer My Man to sleep in the same bed as I do.

When we first started sharing a bed, neither one of us could sleep very well. We were both raised like only children (his brother had died, and I didn't have step siblings until later, and I never lived with them) so we were used to sleeping alone. I'm a light sleeper and it took a lot of getting used to for both of us.

We'd stay up or wake up and talk a lot. I've heard this is very common for "newly weds" (we weren't married yet) and it helps with bonding. It was SO nice to have sex and just be able to fall asleep, rather than get up, get dressed and wait in the car while he paid the hotel bill or drove the car away from the parking spot. LOL! MUCH BETTER!

At this point I can't sleep if he isn't there.
03/23/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I love the space of having my own bed but i've gotten so used to sleeping with my partner next to me, I have a hard time falling asleep without him there. Mayhaps it's time for a king mattress!
03/23/2011
Contributor: jaimijacklin jaimijacklin
cuddling in the winter & shoving eachother away in the summer lol
03/24/2011