I used to look through my Ex's phone because frankly I did not trust him. The guy I'm with now I dont even feel the need to look through his phone, because I feel like if he were talking to anyone he would tell me. But I do look through his pictures sometimes and put some fun(wink) pictures of me as his background <3

I can read him like a book too! It's hard to keep things from me I always find out sooner or later. As for the phone thing, ya if I feel I need to I will. My phone is always open to be looked at if he wants to so is any of my computer sites.

I've snooped ONCE. Occasionally, I make little jokes about going through it and reading his texts. All he has to say in response is, "Go ahead. I've got nothing to hide."
I trust him completely and I know that he's faithful, but whenever he leaves it out in the open, I get the urge to go through it. I think it's a terrible invasion of privacy, and I would be incredibly angry if he did it to me. I have nothing to hide, but I'm a very private person. I guess I'm a little hypocritical in that sense. :/

I have and saw things that werent supposed to be there. we talked about it n ever since, havent touched it again

Ditto!

My partner can't keep up with a phone. He's been through several so he finally gave up. Lol. He doesn't ever text or use the phone often, but when he needs to he just uses mine. He's weird about having a phone he thinks it's too much extra to carry or one more thing he'll lose! Lol. But he does have a pre-paid cell that he would use at work to get to me when he needed to or incase I needed something, but his dad has taken it over! Lol. He's a new cell phone lover.

Anyways, I don't think you're crazy at all for doing that. It's actually more common than you think. When mine did have a phone, I once checked the calls online because I was paranoid. Lol. Nothing suspicious and I don't blame you. It's a comfort thing and if that's what brings you comfort then I don't see anything wrong with it. It's not like it's a horrible thing to do.

Women have to worry whether they trust their partner fully or not, women do have to put up a certain wall due to just about every woman being betrayed at least once in their lives. I mean who can blame you, we are constantly being told we should do this for our men or we aren't good enough, every time you pick up a magazine you'll see at least one section claiming warning us of cheating partners. Who wouldn't become worried?

I do not do that, no. I feel like if you're that suspicious of your partner and worried about what they're doing, the relationship needs some serious work!

I think everybodies does but sometime be perpared for a bit.

Very sad, your ex needed (needs) professional help.

I have done it and I am glad I've found nothing.

Same for my SO and me. We know each other's passwords to unlock our phones, but do not snoop, ever. I trust her completely and she trusts me. Our relationship has been based on honesty and trust, which allows us to have a successful open relationship.