It used to bother me, only cause my ex had an addiction to it. Within moderation I don't have a problem.
Do you care if your husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend looks at porn by themselves.
06/19/2011
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Aw! Alure, don't worry about it bothering others. It's not like it effects them. I am the same way. Porn bothers me very badly. My partner and I are totally 100% against it. In fact we're both active FAPPERS!
Originally posted by
AU
Yes, like your partner--I'm pretty uptight and people who are too relaxed frustrate me. I have a weird sort of pride attached to my uptight-ness! Uptight people, unite! I'm sorry that it bothers you, though.
06/20/2011
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OH MY! Wow. That was so sweet. I was reading through this little thread and my partner and I DO NOT do the whole porn thing and to be honest, it really bothers me to hear people constantly say bad things about us all because we choose not to. Anyways, reading what you said was really refreshing! I often get hung up in threads like this and get paranoid thinking oh heck, it's all hopeless. My partner's going to end up doing what everyone says and hid his porn habits, but it gave me hope to see your comment. I never hear people say it's possible to only want the person you are with and I'm always being told that it's a lie. My partner tells me he only wants me & that was his choice. I guess it isn't impossible for men to stay away from it. I think it's so precious the love you and your sweetie have for each other and I hope my partner and I are the same even after we're 80! lol.
Originally posted by
markeagleone
If my wife watched it, I wouldn't have a problem with it. I would only hope a part of her thinks of me. I don't thinl I have to worry, though. If she watched it, it would be with both eyes closed. I personally haven't for years. I learned
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If my wife watched it, I wouldn't have a problem with it. I would only hope a part of her thinks of me. I don't thinl I have to worry, though. If she watched it, it would be with both eyes closed. I personally haven't for years. I learned that I can picture what I want in my head and there is only one person there.
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06/20/2011
Doesn't bother me at all! Especially since we both like very very very different porn. We just decided not to tell each other about it because apparently she doesn't even like to hear about what I watch haha
06/23/2011
YES! I have severe body image issues and I would feel horrible if my hubby were looking at nude women with or without me. Fortunately, he isn't bothered by it and is fine with not watching stuff like that.
06/30/2011
I watch porn w/o my partner so I cant really tell him not to. Its funny cuz his ex wife would always get mad at him so when he got w/me, he was excited to be able to watch porn and not be in trouble. However he told me that now it kind of has lost its excitement since its not "dirty" or "wrong" anymore.
06/30/2011
Has never and will never bother me. everyone needs their "me" time
06/30/2011
I don't really care
07/01/2011
Nope doesn't bother me at all. Though my feelings might be hurt if I wanted to watch it too and wasn't invited. Though it's basically the same feeling I get whenever my partner watches any movie without asking if I wanted to watch it with him.
07/01/2011
Sometimes I know he peeks at some online before he comes to bed (I can tell from his face. LOL! And the fact that he attacks me with gusto as soon as he comes into the room, even if I'm in the middle of something.) The only reason it bothers me when he does that is that I would have been happy to watch it with him! Sometimes I'll then put on a DVD for us, so we can both watch together.
07/01/2011
no not at all
07/03/2011
She has absolutely ruined porn for me. But I don't mimd.
07/03/2011
It's really good for him to look at porn by himself. If I'm too tired, then I'm too tired.
07/09/2011
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This is exactly how I feel. I understand and respect my SO's man to hand relationship, however if it gets in the way of OUR relationship that is a problem.
Originally posted by
LikeSunshineDust
I say no, but if he did it all the time and instead of having sex with me then there'd be a problem.
07/09/2011
my wife can do whatever she wants
07/09/2011
It's not her sleeping with other men, and if its what she wants to do, who am I to judge/stop her?
07/09/2011
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We both enjoy porn and also if you think about the fact that they are home with a movie and not out with another person that changes the 'betrayal' factor some of my friends have felt.
Originally posted by
KrissyRoro
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
07/09/2011
If it becomes an addiction, then I do have an issue. But if he doesn't care for it, he isn't getting addicted, so meh.
08/16/2011
It wouldn't both me if she told me. If she kept it a secret it would bother me a little.
08/17/2011
That'd be pretty bad of me to get upset at a partner for watching porn, when it's something I do quite often and enjoy doing. Assuming they have what I would consider reasonable porn watching habits, I don't have a problem with it.
08/17/2011
I would not want him to watch porn, and he doesn't want me watching it either.
08/18/2011
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I would actually prefer if I was given the opportunity to watch it with her but I wouldn't get all bent out of shape If I caught her watching something by herself. I would actually be interested about how she would react to the porn by herself honestly.
Originally posted by
KrissyRoro
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
08/18/2011
No I look at porn by myself sometimes and it would make me a total hypocrite if I did care.
08/18/2011
No it doesn't bother me.
08/18/2011
It just depends for me. I used to be really jealous and asked him to stop watching porn so he did but now I'm mostly fine with it if he wants to.
02/08/2012
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I agree with this.
Originally posted by
LikeSunshineDust
I say no, but if he did it all the time and instead of having sex with me then there'd be a problem.
02/08/2012
I wouldn't have a problem with it at all.
02/08/2012
Less work for me haha
02/08/2012
I use porn way way more than he does
02/10/2012
Doesn't bother me. He likes different types of porn than I do, so it would be boring if we only watched things together. He loves his porn, and it has never interfered with anything around here at all.
02/10/2012