The New Intimacy

Do you care if your husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend looks at porn by themselves.

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Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
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Originally posted by LikeSunshineDust
I say no, but if he did it all the time and instead of having sex with me then there'd be a problem.
Agreed, so I went with "depends".
03/21/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Doesn't bother me at all, and vice versa. We're not into the same kind of porn, so either we do it alone or not at all.
03/25/2011
Contributor: oopsy oopsy
I don't care! If it makes them happy and doesn't hurt me go for it!
03/27/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
It is against our religion, so it is a no go.
03/28/2011
Contributor: tffnyandrs tffnyandrs
I just don't know. It realy does depend! I'd like to see more in depth polls based on this question!!
05/26/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
It use to bother me but not anymore because i do it without him sometimes. So i cant get mad at him for something i'm also doing.
05/26/2011
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
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Originally posted by KrissyRoro
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
in small quartities in which it was just for fun rather then with being with me ion some way i would be okay but if it became extreme i would probably get annoyed quick.
05/27/2011
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I put other because it would bother me if they hid it from me or lied. Otherwise...not at all! I do!
Totally agreed
05/27/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
He watches porn all the time by himself, and I watch it semi often by myself. We watch it together sometimes, usually too focused on each other though.

Both of us knows the other watches it and we dont care. As long as we're both honest and it doesn't interfere with our sex life, it doesn't matter!
05/27/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
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Originally posted by Rainbow Boy
I wouldn't be bothered at all. I find it very kinky actually. I think it would be a great way to learn what kind of things your partner is into, and maybe you could even try them out together.
I agree with this! We were just talking about this today...we have not viewed porn together yet, but plan to start for this very reason. Actually, neither of us WATCH porn very often since we both prefer reading erotica instead.
05/27/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
No. We're both really into porn so it's not an issue.
05/28/2011
Contributor: Scott Ghost Scott Ghost
I watch it by myself, why would I be mad if she did
05/29/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
If it was porn related to some fantasy or fetish he had, it might upset me. But only if he hadn't tried discussing the fantasy/fetish with me and wanted to actually do it. And if we were having a dry spell and he was watching porn instead, I'd be upset. But if our sex life was healthy and we were open with each other, I wouldn't have a problem with him watching porn alone.
05/29/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Nope. I laughed when I heard the comment "I just got my internet back, so I beat the crap out of myself!" Okay, I laughed my ass off.
05/29/2011
Contributor: ChickRocking ChickRocking
Quote:
Originally posted by KrissyRoro
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
Doesn't bother me at all. I look at porn by myself too. I don't find porn to be a big deal.
05/29/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Nope, I don't mind at all!
05/30/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by KrissyRoro
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
I know my wife sometimes does while she gets off when I am not around. No big deal I lie her to tell me about it later as foreplay.
05/30/2011
Contributor: tesseract tesseract
I would not be happy if they were choosing porn over actual intimacy, and I was being ignored in favour of some pictures or film.

Also, I know I cannot be there every time to help him ease his "tension", and nor can he be there to attend mine either. Just to relieve a little "itch" so to speak when the other partner is not present, able to, or into much intimacy at the moment, that is okay as long as the flesh and blood partner is not being ignored or the porno takes the place of actual intimacy or sex in the relationship.
06/11/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
I don't see my boyfriend very often, so it isn't like we can really watch it together. Sometimes we do purchase the same DVD and watch it at the same time, but other than that we both fend for ourselves.
06/11/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by KrissyRoro
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
As long as she doesn't hide it no. I want to share what arouses my wife.
06/11/2011
Contributor: curmudgeoncat curmudgeoncat
If I'm sexually satisfied, I don't care if they watch porn by themselves. However, if I feel like they exclusively look at porn and it detracts from having sexy time with them, then I could definitely see myself getting aggravated after a while.
06/11/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I put that "it depends," but the only time I wouldn't want him to watch it alone is if he's not totally satisfied when we're together. I want to know what he needs! Other than that, he is welcome to watch all the porn he wants... perhaps it will inspire him and he'll share!
06/12/2011
Contributor: MN58 MN58
umm honestly ( and people might not like me for this) I do not like sharing any part of my man. He is mine and his eyes are only for me and mine for him.
06/14/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by KrissyRoro
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
Not as long as he tells me about it. ;-)
06/14/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Doesn't worry me
06/16/2011
Contributor: sweetiebelle sweetiebelle
My last boyfriend would watch porn constantly, and so would I.

It doesnt really matter to me, I do it so he can too.

I like watching it with him thought :p

The other thing we would do is send links to each other.
06/17/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by sweetiebelle
My last boyfriend would watch porn constantly, and so would I.

It doesnt really matter to me, I do it so he can too.

I like watching it with him thought :p

The other thing we would do is send links to each other.
My husband and I do that too. Especially when he is away on business. I love that.
06/17/2011
Contributor: jjdd jjdd
I'm kind of anti-porn just as a personal preference. But, I only mind him watching it because it screws up our computer haha
06/17/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
No, it's fine. I do too.
06/19/2011
Contributor: crbliss crbliss
Quote:
Originally posted by Mlee
I would say no but i would have a problem with it if he would rather look at porn the look at me
i think my boyfriends like that....it really dose suck
06/19/2011