i'm always ready and she's always willing, so it kinda works out

Mine has been a little lower lately, but it should come back. I can still usually be coaxed into some sexy time.

It's pretty much the same. I believe he has a little bit stronger of a sex drive, but I'm not too far behind him. Sometimes it just takes a little work to get me going

Not even close. She wants it - at most - once a week. I want it 3 times a week. That means we have sex at most once a week.

depends.

We kind of fluctuate. Sometimes I want it more for a few weeks, sometimes he does. The only consistent difference is that I can't do morning sex, but he loves it.

He and I are pretty much a good match. Of course, no couple always is in sync. Sometimes he's more horny than I am (although that appears to be the past) and sometimes I have a higher drive than he does.

Mine has increased, since the kids are older and I hit peri-menopause a little early. (Unfortunately, with the increased drive brought a high orgasmic threshold, which I never had before)

The only time we were really out of sync seriously was when we had little babies. I was busy trying to keep babies alive and feeding them with my body and really NOT wanting to be touched, because I had this helpless, needy, constantly hungry child attached to me virtually all the time, and his sex drive didn't change. The time after our babies were born were hard for about a year with each one.

I do prefer evening sex, I just find orgasm easier in the evening, when we aren't rushed and it's dark etc. He does love sex any time, but really likes quickies in the morning.

For instance, last night we had a semi-marathon (about 2 hours) starting with a DVD while he received oral sex, then we moved to the bed, (I turned off the movie as it tends to make me distracted, he prefers to leave the porn on) and we played and then concentrated on my first orgasm. PIV, oral, no anal last night for some reason, lots of anal PLAY, but not anal intercourse. He worked very hard to help me come. We were successful (YAY!) More PIV and play, then he got very tired and actually fell asleep while I was trying to get him off.

So, we decided to have a quickie this morning, he really needed it, and I had a good time, too.

*WHEW* I'm still horny. Well, we have a 3 or 4 day weekend, there should be time to have plenty of fun.

No, we're usually on the same page in this department.

We use to be the same, then his was higher than mine, and now mine is higher than his! So frustrating..

When we first started dating, we were the same. Then a few years ago, she became less and less interested. We blamed it on her food allergies and work and moved on. Now that we figured out she has latex allergies and stopped using condoms, her sex drive is back to normal. Boy I am glad we figured that out!

Normally the same! Thank GOD!

it ebs & flows.