Well, I don't think I have ever been spanked TOO hard. I like more than light taps. A really good spanking to me makes the loud slapping sound against skin, is hard enough to make my cheeks jiggle and leaves a light print. THAT is a good one. Putting so much pressure behind it that it knocks me over is not sexy or a turn on. I don't want to be beat for Pete's sake. Drawing blood or leaving an injury mark is not acceptable. Not to me. Drawing blood, that's when it begins to cross the line into abuse.

I personally like being played roughly with, but nothing that actually brings tears to my eyes or leaves me in pain. That is not cool.

Now if we're talking cooter slaps--totally different story. Gentle! But a good slap with a tiny sting is really nice. less