How hard do you like your spankings?

Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Just light taps
13  (16%)
Put some elbow grease into it!
46  (55%)
Never hard enough, baby!
16  (19%)
I don't like spankings
8  (10%)
Total votes: 83
Poll is closed
07/13/2012
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Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I'm unsure. I've never been spanked
07/13/2012
Contributor: Danneh Danneh
I wouldn't say 'Never hard enough' just due to how hard spankings can get with implements- though I've never had an issue with a partner and their hand.
07/13/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
I am not the one who gets spanked, my Baby is, only.
07/13/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
I am not the one who gets spanked, my Baby is, only.
I couldn't handle the "truly hard" pain, but anything inbetween can come as long as I can handle it! ^^
07/13/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Well, I don't think I have ever been spanked TOO hard. I like more than light taps. A really good spanking to me makes the loud slapping sound against skin, is hard enough to make my cheeks jiggle and leaves a light print. THAT is a good one. Putting so much pressure behind it that it knocks me over is not sexy or a turn on. I don't want to be beat for Pete's sake. Drawing blood or leaving an injury mark is not acceptable. Not to me. Drawing blood, that's when it begins to cross the line into abuse.

I personally like being played roughly with, but nothing that actually brings tears to my eyes or leaves me in pain. That is not cool.

Now if we're talking cooter slaps--totally different story. Gentle! But a good slap with a tiny sting is really nice.
07/13/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
I like to be red after. Occasionally, welts are good if I'm in the zone.
07/13/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I like it harder than he usually gives it.
07/13/2012
Contributor: HB042 HB042
I like some sting, and a good, direct hit. Not a thud or a glancing blow.
07/13/2012
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
As long as it doesn't do permanent physical harm, I can handle a lot of pain and enjoy it.
07/13/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I don't like spanking at all.
07/13/2012
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I want my ass to be cherry red. Is that pretty hard?
07/13/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
If I'm in the right head space, hubby could probably draw blood and I may orgasm rather than be in pain. I have a super high pain tolerance for most things. I'm sure there's a "too hard," but we haven't found it yet.
07/14/2012
Contributor: HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Not often. He hates it and I only like light smacks.
07/14/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I would say I like a medium level of spanking. My past partners never did it hard enough, actually - too timid! Basically, I like a little sting.
07/14/2012
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Medium to hard, but not too hard. We don't want to leave bruises. For us spanky time is fun time.
07/14/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I would say light to medium.
07/14/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Gotta have a little sting!
07/15/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
I like slaps that have a sting to them, and leave a little mark, but nothing that results in bruising.
07/15/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Intensity Mrs.Intensity
A little sting is nice... not too much sting, just enough
07/16/2012
Contributor: LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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i like it to sound worse than it feels tehe
07/17/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I like my ass to be nice and redand warm.
07/20/2012
Contributor: Faeya Faeya
We're still working our way up to "real" pain, but so far I've enjoyed everything Dragon has thrown at me. He's still afraid He's really going to hurt me, so He tends to dial it back quite a bit...but, ever since we got a crop, He's started getting quite a bit meaner, thankfully
07/20/2012
Contributor: duff duff
Depends how hot the sex it. Sometimes i enjoy the extra pain
07/20/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Definitely light to medium. It all depends on how turned on I am and what else we're doing.
07/21/2012
Contributor: TheHardOne TheHardOne
I like to get that good slapping sound. The impact doesnt matter as much as the sound.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Mr. Tickle and Giggle Mr. Tickle and Giggle
Spank me hard
07/25/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
Hard enough to hurt, but only if the location of the slaps is varied a lot. Getting hit many times in the same spot is a whole other level of pain!
07/25/2012
Contributor: Ganconagh Ganconagh
I have a very high tolerance for pain, so hard as she wants to
07/25/2012
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
Pretty hard, but not to the point of bruising
07/25/2012