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Do you incorporate moderate or extreme pain during foreplay?

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Contributor: Tart Tart
Do any of these activities get your partner aroused and ready to fuck?
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Tart , Waterfall , Trashley , Sexymami69 , OhMy! , Jenniae09 , meganthomas , Danielle1220 , lamira , moonlitlilly , gothikstars , DeliciousSurprise , Emma (Girl With Fire) , Kim! , Eeyor89 , butterflygirlxo , LavenderSkies , maskineri , null , mrs.mckrakn , PussyGalore , UnknownGirl , RemusHalifax , RubenesqueAna , Pixel , CanMan , JayBack , moonch1ld , idunshire , The Awesome Penguin , Kaltir , Cream in the Cupcake , jankit , MrRainybowbow , emtangel , shelly8791 , Angel deSanguine , Eliza , KatPawz2003 , Carrots , LittleBird , tickle me pink , Smitty , Lady Marmelade , Belleuma Slle , ZenaidaMacroura , The Curious Couple , slynch , shcoo , SexyStuff , Sir , AussieSarah , goofballmaster , Graniteal , hot n spicey , dhig , firefly1330 , Life's Little Secrets , Youssii , Bittenflame , momoxd11 , pinkpottergirl , Missmarc , pootpootpoot , Feisty , Bowen , Lavendar , Badass , sexykiss
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lamira , Kayla , Emma (Girl With Fire) , LavenderSkies , UnknownGirl , sbon , RubenesqueAna , Redboxbaby , jankit , Angel deSanguine , Carrots , Linga , Lady Marmelade , Belleuma Slle , The Curious Couple , slynch , Sir , AussieSarah , goofballmaster , dhig , Life's Little Secrets , Youssii , pinkpottergirl , Feisty
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Tart , Trashley , Sexymami69 , OhMy! , meganthomas , lamira , gothikstars , DeliciousSurprise , Kayla , Emma (Girl With Fire) , pinkzombie , Kim! , Hallmar82 , Eeyor89 , leatherlover , LavenderSkies , C4ss , maskineri , null , darthkitt3n , mrs.mckrakn , PussyGalore , UnknownGirl , sbon , RemusHalifax , RubenesqueAna , removedacnt , Pixel , CanMan , Redboxbaby , moonch1ld , The Awesome Penguin , Hadespark , Kaltir , Cream in the Cupcake , jankit , Angel deSanguine , KatPawz2003 , Carrots , tickle me pink , Linga , Lady Marmelade , ZenaidaMacroura , K101 , The Curious Couple , slynch , Apirka , SexyStuff , Sir , Swish , Harpina is gone , AussieSarah , squire , dhig , firefly1330 , Life's Little Secrets , Youssii , pinkpottergirl , Missmarc , Feisty , Bowen , BlooJay
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Tart , Trashley , Sexymami69 , DeliciousSurprise , Kayla , LavenderSkies , removedacnt , Pixel , CanMan , KatPawz2003 , Carrots , Linga , Lady Marmelade , Sir , AussieSarah , dhig , Life's Little Secrets , Missmarc
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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Tart
Do any of these activities get your partner aroused and ready to fuck?
Unfortunately neither of my partners likes rough foreplay. I do and they will bite, spank and flog me but I rarely get the opportunity to respond in kind.
11/01/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
I always wanted to try nipple clamps, but I'm kinda nervous! :] I like extreme pain during all aspects of EVERYTHING though
11/01/2010
Contributor: Sexymami69 Sexymami69
Mi amor, bites, spanks, floggs,and I use the nipple clamps, he's the dominate one, at least in the bedroom
11/01/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
During foreplay, not very much. Sometimes during oral he might lovingly nibble my clit or bite my labia majora, but nothing really painful.
11/01/2010
Contributor: sasweetheart89 sasweetheart89
I would prefer it a little more, but he is definitely not into that. Unfortunately, that translates into him not wanting to do it to me, or just plainly forgetting that I want him to, because he wouldn't want it.
11/03/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
We usually pinch, bite, and spank, but other times, we incorporate other forms of pain, but moderate.
11/03/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I like to wrestle in foreplay. We both wrestle for the top and I'm not satisfied until somebodies hurt.
11/12/2010
Contributor: socceras socceras
im not into that kind of stuff
11/14/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Tart
Do any of these activities get your partner aroused and ready to fuck?
mostly spanking, teasing, but small bites, and light choking more of teasing sometimes come in.
11/15/2010
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
I enjoy receiving far more than giving when it comes to pain. That isn't to say that I won't ever do it though.

I only checked what I actually do.
11/15/2010
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
My partner doesn't like rough play but every once in a while he decides to spank me or choke me or pull my hair and it drives me insane! =)
11/15/2010
Contributor: Eeyor89 Eeyor89
Quote:
Originally posted by Trashley
I always wanted to try nipple clamps, but I'm kinda nervous! :] I like extreme pain during all aspects of EVERYTHING though
I have a pair of the fresh nipple clamps and I love them. Since they are the "tweezer" style they allow for an easy, gradual increase of pressure. Here's the link:

Fresh Nipple Clamps

And they are also really cute
11/15/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Hehe almost all of the poll options
11/28/2010
Contributor: southernhawtie southernhawtie
Quote:
Originally posted by Tart
Do any of these activities get your partner aroused and ready to fuck?
I nibble lightly....spank lightly....all in moderation of course...but a little pain during sex makes it so much better.
12/01/2010
Contributor: Moein Moein
More pain leads to more pleasure

it is like a bussiness: High Risk---> High Return
12/02/2010
Contributor: C4ss C4ss
Spank lightly. Nothing too extreme.
12/02/2010
Contributor: maskineri maskineri
Light biting and spanking can spice things up a bit.
12/02/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
depends on out mood. but for the most part no. well, if were doing doggie, he always spanks me. and i like it. im sure he does too. hes constently grabbing my butt when were not having sex
12/03/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Every once in a blue moon we get super amped or are feeling the need to spar with each other and use spanking, biting, pinching and slapping during sex to quell the need. Last night happened to be one of those nights.
12/03/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
I put pinch and spank, but that's him to me, not me to him.
12/15/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
There are times when I get a little rough, or hubby does. And there are times that neither of us does. It just depends on our mood.
12/15/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Nearly all the above. It all has its time and place.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I like to be bitten, spanked, flogged, held down, light choking sometimes. Wish my husband was willing to do it more often!
12/26/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
More so during sex than foreplay.
12/26/2010
Contributor: idunshire idunshire
I definitely do more than my fair share of biting and I love getting bitten. I have yet to be spanked or flogged, but I like the pain that come with struggling.

I think I need to try a bit more pain play, there have been times when I've slapped my partner without actually realizing I did it!
12/26/2010
Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
A cute nibble and spank is always fun
12/26/2010
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
We both LOVE biting, and spanking is always fun too
02/12/2011
Contributor: jankit jankit
Spanking, pinching and biting is what I tend to administer. He is more vanilla and balks when I go for the biting or pinching before we're really hot and bothered. We both like a good spanking though.
02/15/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Severe spanking, pinching, biting, clamps, etc are all a part of our play. However, as the bottom of the relationship, I receive these (and more!) things, and I do not give them.
02/15/2011