Do you incorporate moderate or extreme pain during foreplay?

Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
I dont care for pain myself other then soft bites and a spanking but my boyfriend is a masachist and loves hard bites and clawing ;] Works out well sence im a sadist
02/15/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
Biting and scratching, but not every time we have sex.
02/19/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Sometimes I use the crop other times hair pulling and/or leaving hickeys.
03/23/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Yeah we definitely have. I am a big fan of CBT as a part of foreplay.
04/08/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I like to get rough more than he does, so it's usually just biting, light scratching, spanking, etc.
04/09/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
My partner does not really like this sort of stuff
04/12/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
I don't give but I do get and I love it
04/12/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Nearly all the above. It all has its time and place.
Ummm, same. My girlfriend enjoys all of these at different times, but not always. I enjoy administering these to her as well!
04/12/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Unfortunately neither of my partners likes rough foreplay. I do and they will bite, spank and flog me but I rarely get the opportunity to respond in kind.
I have been proven wrong on this account >.< Seems BOTH my partners were telling me what they though I wanted to hear! They both like it rough and things have gotten much more intense lately...for once I was the one leaving markis on their bodies...RAWR!!
04/13/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
He: Nibbling is ok, but not biting (biting is zombie foreplay).

She: He's such a nerd he made a computer joke about that but I didn't write it down.
04/16/2011
Contributor: Forever17 Forever17
no none of these turn us on !
09/27/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
We don't do anything that would leave marks, other than a red mark on my booty. Spanking is my fav, but only with his hand. I don't want sex where someone is hurting me and I wouldn't be comfortable with him if he enjoyed causing me pain, but I have ordered a set of nice nipple clamps finally. I've been very interested in trying them, but I wouldn't want serious pain or blood drawn.
09/27/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I answered, "No, my partner doesn't like that" because he's not into any kind of pain. I, on the other hand, love a rough touch! I love being spanked, having my nipples pinched and my my hair tugged. He's ok with doing those things, despite not being into it himself.
09/27/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I like to bite, pinch, and spank!
09/27/2011
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
Yes, we love biting. Occasional spanking is cool, too.
I really want to buy nipple clamps and a crop, though!
01/11/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Gentle, so not really provoking pain so much as excitement.
01/11/2012
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
Light bitting and spanking
01/11/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I love being spanked....but not too hard. It's the psychological part, i don't want pain!
01/12/2012
Contributor: prttynink prttynink
spanking ftw! also love having the back of my neck bitten
01/12/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
I also enjoy canes for foreplay, in addition to everything that was listed. Spanking is always fun, as is impact play. Hair pulling is another form of pain that I enjoy giving. I think that for foreplay as a precursor to sex, spanking, hair pulling, general aggression is a good form of pain. I definitely enjoy nipple torture and breast slapping, and I also have fun biting.
01/12/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
My guy spanks me but doesn't really care for me doing it to him. He prefers that I scratch his back and ass.
02/26/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
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Originally posted by Tart
Do any of these activities get your partner aroused and ready to fuck?
No, my partner doesn't like that
02/27/2012
Contributor: ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
We aren't into pain.
02/28/2012
Contributor: goofballmaster goofballmaster
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Originally posted by Tart
Do any of these activities get your partner aroused and ready to fuck?
I bite and pinch my girlfriend's nipples. I really enjoy my girlfriend biting my chest as hard as she can (almost to the point of bleeding).
03/18/2012
Contributor: purple579 purple579
I like biting and I like being spanked
03/18/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
he doesn't enjoy getting it, but he'll *jokingly* spank me and such
04/02/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
I do basically none of them except ocasionally bite but he does all of those things to me on a regular basis with the exception of pinching.
04/02/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
ouch...no!
04/02/2012
Contributor: hot n spicey hot n spicey
My lover and I find all of it such a turn on.
04/02/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
not a big fan of pain dont think it sounds fun
04/16/2012