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Do You Always Get/Give A Massage Before/After Sex?

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Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
We will sometimes include a massage before.
09/10/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i would love to include a massage before all the time, but it's an occasional thing because it takes a lot of time
09/10/2011
Contributor: Angelica Angelica
my last partner didn't even bother with foreplay for me let alone massages.
It is nice to have them occasionally, not sure about every time though!
09/26/2011
Contributor: socceras socceras
i wish
10/03/2011
Contributor: rex73 rex73
I always give a massage first. I'm not much of a "receiver" though.

I've read that women's libido's appear lower, especially if you are Mom's, because you just can't "switch gears".

So my solution is to offer several massages per week.

Every time before sex - which admittedly is only 3x/month - I'll give her a 45-60 minute massage to get her mind off of everything else so she can actually be with me. Works for us.
10/06/2011
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
I wish my bf would give me a good foot massage.
10/28/2011
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
Its usually used as foreplay with me and my guy. I love getting them and he knows how to play my buttons to get me ready for more quickly.
12/09/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
It is rare that we include a massage before or after. But I have just bought her some massage oils to increase the number of massages, hopefully.
12/23/2011
Contributor: chibi1091 chibi1091
My bf gives me massages....I never give them lol. I'm bad, but it's not my fault; he loves to touch me, even to just put lotions on me.
01/11/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
my gf makes me massage her before
06/17/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
usually not
06/17/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaltir
The title says it. What do you do?
We include a massage before occaisionally.
06/17/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Sometimes before or after, especially if one of us has had a long day.
06/18/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
It hardly ever happens. I wish it happened more often. It makes me sad. : [
06/30/2012
Contributor: LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaltir
The title says it. What do you do?
my bf loves massage any time
07/06/2012
Contributor: hotcherry hotcherry
Give a massage before
07/06/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
he's only done it twice but I really like it, before preferably
07/06/2012
Contributor: wes wes
depend on my mood
07/10/2012