The title says it. What do you do?
Do You Always Get/Give A Massage Before/After Sex?
03/09/2011
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My wife loves a massage before sex.
Originally posted by
Kaltir
The title says it. What do you do?
03/11/2011
we don't massage all the time before sex
03/11/2011
Wouldn't you know it, I had pick 'Other' - even with all those choices!
The reason I did is that in our relationship a 'massage' is specifically sexual. If we want something else, we ask for a 'back rub'.
We do not do a back rub every time we have sex - maybe 1/2 the time.
I do a 'groin' massage before 99% of our sexual encounters. Starting with firm pressure I massage the muscles and ligament area where the legs and hips meet - it really helps her relax and get in the mood for sex. When the time is right things change from firm to soft and from muscles to her vulva, etc...
The reason I did is that in our relationship a 'massage' is specifically sexual. If we want something else, we ask for a 'back rub'.
We do not do a back rub every time we have sex - maybe 1/2 the time.
I do a 'groin' massage before 99% of our sexual encounters. Starting with firm pressure I massage the muscles and ligament area where the legs and hips meet - it really helps her relax and get in the mood for sex. When the time is right things change from firm to soft and from muscles to her vulva, etc...
03/11/2011
We have massages sometimes beforehand. I've never really paid attention to the number of times a massage turns into sex.
03/11/2011
We don't really, since I massage for a living it usually just makes me think of work and not sex so it's not really a turn on for me.
03/11/2011
Sometimes we do, but not very often at all. It's usually a special occasion thing, although I wish it was more often!
03/11/2011
He's not into giving or receiving massages so it is not part of our play.
03/11/2011
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I'm just glad that someone choosing other still thought there were a lot of choices! Lol! Thank you for a very thorough "Other" :-D
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Wouldn't you know it, I had pick 'Other' - even with all those choices!
The reason I did is that in our relationship a 'massage' is specifically sexual. If we want something else, we ask for a 'back rub'.
We ... more
The reason I did is that in our relationship a 'massage' is specifically sexual. If we want something else, we ask for a 'back rub'.
We ... more
Wouldn't you know it, I had pick 'Other' - even with all those choices!
The reason I did is that in our relationship a 'massage' is specifically sexual. If we want something else, we ask for a 'back rub'.
We do not do a back rub every time we have sex - maybe 1/2 the time.
I do a 'groin' massage before 99% of our sexual encounters. Starting with firm pressure I massage the muscles and ligament area where the legs and hips meet - it really helps her relax and get in the mood for sex. When the time is right things change from firm to soft and from muscles to her vulva, etc... less
The reason I did is that in our relationship a 'massage' is specifically sexual. If we want something else, we ask for a 'back rub'.
We do not do a back rub every time we have sex - maybe 1/2 the time.
I do a 'groin' massage before 99% of our sexual encounters. Starting with firm pressure I massage the muscles and ligament area where the legs and hips meet - it really helps her relax and get in the mood for sex. When the time is right things change from firm to soft and from muscles to her vulva, etc... less
03/12/2011
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I think I need to visit you. Lol!
Originally posted by
Taylor
We don't really, since I massage for a living it usually just makes me think of work and not sex so it's not really a turn on for me.
03/12/2011
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Awww, I'm sorry to hear that. A massage, even in a non-sexual way, can be so amazing after a rough day. Maybe he'll come around someday
Originally posted by
liilii080
He's not into giving or receiving massages so it is not part of our play.
03/12/2011
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Maybe try to incorporate a small amount of massage during foreplay, etc. For example, while I'm performing oral sex for him, I randomly massage areas like his legs, sides, etc, so he grew to like massage by association, and now he can't get enough of them, especially after a long work day. I hope that helps a little!
Originally posted by
PiratePrincess
Sometimes we do, but not very often at all. It's usually a special occasion thing, although I wish it was more often!
03/12/2011
Occasionally before, haven't done it after yet
03/25/2011
I love post-orgasm massages. Request them from my partner all the time. He on the other hand prefers massages before bed, regardless of sex.
03/25/2011
More massages are welcome in my sex life!
04/06/2011
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Both Anakin and I enjoy getting/giving massages and sometimes it happens before or after sex. It all depends on how much time we have and if we are having some back issues.
Originally posted by
Kaltir
The title says it. What do you do?
06/27/2011
I clicked "other". I give her a message, she doesn't me.
06/27/2011
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no never
Originally posted by
Kaltir
The title says it. What do you do?
06/27/2011
Massaging before always helps me relax.
06/27/2011
With a really good massage, I can orgasm. But I rarely get really deep massages since most people I know don't have good finger strength. Regardless, being massaged feels good unless it's light touching. Light touching doesn't do anything for me and makes me frustrated. As for leading to sex or not, I haven't been keeping a tally. Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
06/27/2011
We've never done that. It's not even something I would think about, because to me a massage isn't sexual - but I sometimes need to get professional massages for medical issues, so I think that's why they're so separate in my book.
06/27/2011
He doesn't seem too into massages unless my back is hurting then he'll give me one.. and he always just wants his back scratched, never rubbed I'm thinking about buying massage oils just to see if I can get him to open up to them and we can make massages sexual
06/27/2011
It's good to give a massage to your partner before the act, this can help one relax and feel more comfortable.
06/27/2011
Hardly ever anymore unfortunately. I wish we did. My partner hates the way massage lotions/oils feel on his hands.
07/19/2011
I sometimes give my fiancee a massage before, but that's about it.
07/19/2011
Sometimes.
07/20/2011
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I am a registered Masseuse (not for a living..however). Helped pay for college that way. However, my wife HATES massages. Go figure. Thus, NONE, EVER at my house.
Originally posted by
Kaltir
The title says it. What do you do?
07/21/2011
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I need one right now!!!!
Originally posted by
Kaltir
Awww, I'm sorry to hear that. A massage, even in a non-sexual way, can be so amazing after a rough day. Maybe he'll come around someday
07/21/2011
I like to loosen my wife up with a good massage
08/09/2011
We include a massage before occaisionally.
09/10/2011
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