I lost my virginity when i was 16, i would not change my sexual activity. i lost it to the love of my life and i am still happily married to that man and have a beautiful baby girl. ( i am 27 and just had the baby i was not a teen mom just in case you were wondering)
When you were a teen
03/30/2013
My High School GF, the first person I was sexually active with contacted me some months ago. She remembered the time we were together as...
well suffice it to say she remembered me and how I treated her fondly.
well suffice it to say she remembered me and how I treated her fondly.
03/30/2013
I was 18, it was a one night stand and I don't regret it.
I was VERY limited in my sexual experience, or experience with people of the opposite sex, because I was for some reason terrified of sex and all things sexual. It was mostly self esteem based - I figured I'd be no good, unattractive, etc, etc. I just didn't think it would be a good experience. So I just decided one night to get it over with, with someone who's opinion of me I didn't care about, and was unlikely to see again. We were safe, we did our thing, and that was that. It opened up a whole new world for me when I realized sex really wasn't a big deal. I met my fiance 6 months later, and I guarantee things would have ended up much differently if I had not done what I did - I wouldn't have allowed him to get close, and that would have been the end of it.
I was VERY limited in my sexual experience, or experience with people of the opposite sex, because I was for some reason terrified of sex and all things sexual. It was mostly self esteem based - I figured I'd be no good, unattractive, etc, etc. I just didn't think it would be a good experience. So I just decided one night to get it over with, with someone who's opinion of me I didn't care about, and was unlikely to see again. We were safe, we did our thing, and that was that. It opened up a whole new world for me when I realized sex really wasn't a big deal. I met my fiance 6 months later, and I guarantee things would have ended up much differently if I had not done what I did - I wouldn't have allowed him to get close, and that would have been the end of it.
04/02/2013
I was having sex in the late teens and I don't regret it in the slightest.
05/02/2013
I would not change being sexually active but I would change who I was with.
05/02/2013
i was 15 and i regret it a little...but i think i'd be different if I hadn't. It's part of who I am
05/02/2013
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I was sexually active at a very young age (13) and I don't give a fuck about it. Who cares? Life is life and I took care of myself, was careful, and now I'm happily married.
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
Were you sexually active? I was and I regret it. Seeing my younger sister be active just freaks me out though. She's even younger than I used to be. The times have changed!
05/02/2013
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This is my story as well.
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P'Gell
Every person matures at a different rate. I was sexually active at 16. I don't regret it. I was ready for it and I learned a lot. I made sure I was with the right man the first time I had sex (and with any other man I had sex with) and have never
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Every person matures at a different rate. I was sexually active at 16. I don't regret it. I was ready for it and I learned a lot. I made sure I was with the right man the first time I had sex (and with any other man I had sex with) and have never regretted a sexual encounter.
I don't think it's any different "now" than it was years ago. Teens have been having sex since the beginning of time. My mother and father had many friends who got pregnant in the late 50s and early 60s, when they were teens. We are pretty sure my grandmother was an unwed teen mom in the 1920s! (My dad's older sister, by more than a dozen years.) In fact, the teen pregnancy rate has dropped recently.
I do think some people feel pressured to have sex early. A few teens may have a hard time saying no to a prospective boyfriend or girlfriend. That is nothing new.
But, many of us are happy with our youthful decisions and glad we did what we did when we did them. less
I don't think it's any different "now" than it was years ago. Teens have been having sex since the beginning of time. My mother and father had many friends who got pregnant in the late 50s and early 60s, when they were teens. We are pretty sure my grandmother was an unwed teen mom in the 1920s! (My dad's older sister, by more than a dozen years.) In fact, the teen pregnancy rate has dropped recently.
I do think some people feel pressured to have sex early. A few teens may have a hard time saying no to a prospective boyfriend or girlfriend. That is nothing new.
But, many of us are happy with our youthful decisions and glad we did what we did when we did them. less
05/02/2013
I wasn't really sexually active as a teen.
05/02/2013
I had sex for the first time when I was 18. Don't regret it in the slightest.
05/03/2013
I was occasionally sexually active. I think some teens do have sex too young. I think it depends on the maturity and how ready the individual is.
05/03/2013
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I was not sexually active until after I was 18 and now I regret that I wasnt experimenting as a teenager because I'm slightly a little naive as far as somethings go and I know that its something that bothers my husband
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
Were you sexually active? I was and I regret it. Seeing my younger sister be active just freaks me out though. She's even younger than I used to be. The times have changed!
05/07/2013
I was 18 for my first time. I don't regret since I'm still with the same man. That was 37 years ago!!!
05/14/2013
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I was 17 and it was unwanted. I was 18 when I had my first child. I am glad I have her but wish it hadden't happend that way. Both of my girls are over 18 and are innocent however most of their friends are not. Babies having babies.
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
Were you sexually active? I was and I regret it. Seeing my younger sister be active just freaks me out though. She's even younger than I used to be. The times have changed!
05/14/2013
I lost my virginity at 14 and don't regret it. I don't quite understand why people would regret it. I mean, those experiences had some part in making you the person you became, so why would you want to change that? O.o
05/15/2013
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I'm a female, was not sexually active, and I regret it.
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
Were you sexually active? I was and I regret it. Seeing my younger sister be active just freaks me out though. She's even younger than I used to be. The times have changed!
05/20/2013
I was 16 when I lost my virginity. No regrets though.
05/20/2013
I was; don't regret it.
05/21/2013
I lost my virginity at 15, to someone I trusted, after making a careful decision to myself. I do not regret it and I would do it again the same way.
07/01/2013
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I was active at the age of seventeen. It started with my boyfriends of 9 months. We went through a lot and it made me grow a lot. I don't regret it at all. Everything I've been through made me what I am today...a freak in the sheets. lol. Every one night stand, every guy that took advantage of me, and being raped is nothing to be ashamed of. I learned from the good times and the bad, and my husband talk about my experiences openly. Like I said, my past is what made me what I am today.
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
Were you sexually active? I was and I regret it. Seeing my younger sister be active just freaks me out though. She's even younger than I used to be. The times have changed!
07/01/2013
._. Damn it, I hit cancel.
I do regret it having sex at age 13 and up, especially when I look back and understand how many people it was, how many times I could have become a teen mother and/or get an STD.
I do regret it having sex at age 13 and up, especially when I look back and understand how many people it was, how many times I could have become a teen mother and/or get an STD.
07/01/2013
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I was not sexually active as a teen but I wish I was.
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
Were you sexually active? I was and I regret it. Seeing my younger sister be active just freaks me out though. She's even younger than I used to be. The times have changed!
07/01/2013