So I've been debating over this.. It's hard to guess what a person might be into and it seems like you would want something universally loved - at least, I know I'd be a bit put off if I were spending the night and your toybox only had an Ella or something which I had no interest in.. So I was looking at the sterilizable vibrators and then had an idea. Why not get a hitachi or other wand style vibe with some different heads so your ladies wouldn't necessarily have to share? I also think that a wand massager has less.. emotional implications than other toys.