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Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by barrettbn2
So, have you ever had sex on the first date? Be honest...no one is here to judge! What do you think about sex on the first date? Dont worry its private voting so no one will know who you are!
I have done it several times. If all I am looking for is to get laid why go to the trouble of getting what you want confused with what you dont. In high school I had several fuck buddies who were often guys who asked me out that I wasn't into for dating relationships but they were hot enough that I would just tell them I don't want to go out but if you are just trying to get me naked lets go
12/31/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
I've done this once. On my first date with hubby, which was also the day we met! And somehow, it all worked out!
12/31/2011
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
Nope, it's a rule of mine. No sex on first date.
12/31/2011
Contributor: voenne voenne
I haven't gone all the way on a first date. Mostly, it's been the second date. I try not to do it anymore if I really want there to be a potential relationship. Sometimes that's hard to wait!
01/04/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I've been a serial monogamist for the most part of my adult life. Most of my longer term partners and I had sex on either the first or second dates.
For those women out there who think that a guy would just want to take off after fucking you, think again. For a guy like me, that's what will REALLY keep me around.
01/04/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
i have before,
06/19/2012
Contributor: BG529 BG529
no!
06/19/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Met a girl at my friends wedding, got to know her, hooked up that night, dating ever since...I'm sure glad I went to that wedding!!!!
06/19/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
I sure have. Many times. I think it is a waste of time to stay with someone if we are not sexually compatible. And I have never felt less respected or anything due to it. I left my relationships, not the other way around.
06/21/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I haven't, but I wouldn't be against it.
06/21/2012
Contributor: Talena Talena
Yup then I married him.
06/21/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
Yes I have.I feel like when women wait they are just trying to make themselves feel better about sex.I think sex on the first date is great if that's really what you want.
06/21/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
No! But if it did happen it was usually on the second or maybe the third date!
06/21/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by barrettbn2
So, have you ever had sex on the first date? Be honest...no one is here to judge! What do you think about sex on the first date? Dont worry its private voting so no one will know who you are!
Yes, I have.
06/21/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by barrettbn2
So, have you ever had sex on the first date? Be honest...no one is here to judge! What do you think about sex on the first date? Dont worry its private voting so no one will know who you are!
first date no.. second date.. YES lol
06/21/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Nope. I don't and I don't think I'd want to. It's just a personal decision.
06/21/2012
Contributor: booboo111926 booboo111926
well im married now but nope ive never done it
06/25/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I have no problem with one night stands, but if it was a proper date then no, I wouldn't sleep with them. I think the build up of anticipation is helpful while you get to know someone.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Llahsram Llahsram
No....but then I've only ever been on one first date.
06/25/2012
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
Lol no, no sex on the first date, my boyfriend had to wait a month for sex. But I did give him oral on our second date. We were really into each other and have been together for three years and counting. I think that if you feel comfortable with it have sex whenever your ready.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
It's not for me. I like for my partner and I to be tested, wait six months, and test again. No quick sex for me, mostly for std concerns.
06/25/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Threesome on the first date. Booyeah. We're now in a really wonderful triad relationship so I don't regret it at all.
07/08/2012
Contributor: dontbackdown02 dontbackdown02
i've done it but its not something i always do
07/09/2012
Contributor: Demonise Demonise
Nope, I take things slowly.
07/09/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I have never had sex on a first date. I usually never kissed on a first date either, but I made an exception once on that kiss.
07/09/2012
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
For me, sex is tied too close with emotional connection and familiarity for me to consider it on the first date or anywhere thereabouts.
07/09/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope, but it was close. Then again, we'd spent the summer flirting and really getting to know eachother, so we'd done group activities a lot
07/14/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
if you have the chemistry go for it baby
07/27/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
I'm not sure I would have called it a date, since we were just fuck buddies.
07/28/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by barrettbn2
So, have you ever had sex on the first date? Be honest...no one is here to judge! What do you think about sex on the first date? Dont worry its private voting so no one will know who you are!
Nope!
08/05/2012