I have done this but this was all I wanted from this person. I think if you want something more hold off for a few.
Sex on the first date?
07/29/2011
I've never been comfortable enough with a man to have sex on the first date. I've had sex with a few guys without formal "dating." Y'know FWB type situations. But, when actual dates occur, I never have.
Although, now that I think about it, the guys I had FWB relationships with did sometimes take me out, and they paid, so I guess it was a date. (Oddly enough, this was after hanging out and actually having sex.) But, these were guys I knew for a while and got to know well before any sex happened.
I have told my daughters; "I have never woken up the morning after a first, second or third date where I didn't sleep with the guy and thought, 'Damn, I should have had sex with him!'" And, its true.
Although, now that I think about it, the guys I had FWB relationships with did sometimes take me out, and they paid, so I guess it was a date. (Oddly enough, this was after hanging out and actually having sex.) But, these were guys I knew for a while and got to know well before any sex happened.
I have told my daughters; "I have never woken up the morning after a first, second or third date where I didn't sleep with the guy and thought, 'Damn, I should have had sex with him!'" And, its true.
07/29/2011
Yes I have and would do again. All depends on the person and the connection you make.
07/29/2011
I never have and to me it just would feel wrong by the type of person I am
08/08/2011
I haven't but wouldn't be against doing it.
08/08/2011
Sex on a first date always seemed like a bad idea to me.
08/08/2011
I have once and it was lousy
08/17/2011
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Wasn't really a date but we did just meet that morning....
Originally posted by
barrettbn2
So, have you ever had sex on the first date? Be honest...no one is here to judge! What do you think about sex on the first date? Dont worry its private voting so no one will know who you are!
08/17/2011
It's really not the end of the world because basically after ten dates you can still no less about a guy or girl than you do on the first....it all depends on the person themselves. For me it's cool, if it happens and the chemistry and desire's there then why not?
08/17/2011
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Love that theory
Originally posted by
Sex'и'Violence
I usually start having sex with the guy before we ever "go on a date" lol
Think of it as sort of a test drive. 8)
Think of it as sort of a test drive. 8)
08/17/2011
No thanks, not into being fast.
08/17/2011
Never have. No that we're both married, never will.
08/28/2011
Never ever ever. It's got less to do with morals and more to do with potential STDS.
08/28/2011
Sex on the first date is not my thing.
08/28/2011
Of course, given certain situations. Usually, it's because I've known that person for a long time beforehand, and our date was after we had already gotten to know each other.
08/28/2011
Nope never done it. I will never do it.
08/29/2011
For many years I knew all my partners as friends before becoming sex partners, so the first time we would have sex would then be known as our 'first date.'
But, given my sexual appetite/history/what have you, I actually prefer to have sex (of some form, generally not penetrative) on a first date. It tends to weed out men who would wind up feeling emasculated later on, so I only spend more time dating partners who are likelier to match me better.
Despite all the people who scoff and say this gives the wrong signal, well, I've never not gotten a call back, and I'm having a hard time remembering a single instance of me wanting to be committed before a partner. (Maybe they were the ones who were supposed to heed the warnings?)
But, given my sexual appetite/history/what have you, I actually prefer to have sex (of some form, generally not penetrative) on a first date. It tends to weed out men who would wind up feeling emasculated later on, so I only spend more time dating partners who are likelier to match me better.
Despite all the people who scoff and say this gives the wrong signal, well, I've never not gotten a call back, and I'm having a hard time remembering a single instance of me wanting to be committed before a partner. (Maybe they were the ones who were supposed to heed the warnings?)
08/29/2011
nope! Guess I might if the moment was right (aka I was drunk), but it hasn't happened so far.
08/29/2011
No, I haven't......defintley sends the wrong message......
08/30/2011
Once 5 years ago and strangely enough we ended up being together ever since! Lol. Other than that no one nighters for me. My excuse? Lots of Jager! Lol. JK I probably would've hit on him even without the Jager, but we dont have to let him know that. Lol
08/31/2011
No I've never
08/31/2011
i have and it was fun.
09/01/2011
No. You need to get to know this person better. Unless you don't care and just looking for a one night stand, I wouldn't.
12/16/2011
not on the first date per se, but definitely within the first week or two...
12/19/2011
I've never had sex on the first date. I've only had sex with one person, actually, and that's my boyfriend. Well, sex once with a MAN. There WAS that one time...or two...with that one girl but he got to watch.
I have given a blowjob to a guy shortly after meeting him, though. It's one of my biggest regrets. I let my loneliness think that his infatuation was actually going to last. But when I wouldn't have sex with him, he left me. -_-"
I have given a blowjob to a guy shortly after meeting him, though. It's one of my biggest regrets. I let my loneliness think that his infatuation was actually going to last. But when I wouldn't have sex with him, he left me. -_-"
12/19/2011
I have never done it but I feel like I should start.
12/19/2011
Have done it, never regretted it. A couple LTRs started out as one nighters, actually, so I must have done something right.
If I'm really feeling someone, I go for it. If I have to take it slow for whatever reason (the other person, slow-building chemistry, etc) I feel frustrated. I see no reason to wait. Life is short. If you're safe, why not? Pleasure is great.
If I'm really feeling someone, I go for it. If I have to take it slow for whatever reason (the other person, slow-building chemistry, etc) I feel frustrated. I see no reason to wait. Life is short. If you're safe, why not? Pleasure is great.
12/20/2011
I'd probably do it.
12/31/2011
Yup! But not often.
12/31/2011
I have, yes.
12/31/2011