I want someone on my level

like for them to have more experience

I want them on my level. I'm very self-conscious, so I don't want to be worrying the entire time about how horrible I might be to them. My husband and I were both virgins when we met and it was nice to learn everything together.

I cant really say as my husband was my first. I really liked that he was more experienced than me in the beginning. He taught me the ropes. I would say we are pretty much equal now. I think a major part of that was a willingness to experiment and try new things, and never held back on anything.

I dont want them to have been around the whole damn block but i want them to know at least an idea of what their doing.

I want them to be on my level!

I'm a little in between on this one. I think if the guy you're talking to has a lot going for him, besides the inexperience you should try it out. It could be fun? I did have a partner years ago who was 100% unexperienced in every possible way. I regretted ever meeting him. He turned into a clingy leach. He cried all the time , etc. I'm not saying all men will be this way because they won't. But maybe just give him a good talking to before engaging in sexual activity. You could try to explain things to him so that he knows what to go for and what you like. My partner was fairly experienced when we first got together. He'd only had a few partners, but knew how to do things right. He was the first person I'd ever had any enjoyment with. I maybe had a couple more partners than he did, but I had never experienced really anything except laying there & watching the clock. Lol.

I guess that would be a hard choice, but given that he's so kind and has a good personality, it couldn't hurt to give it a try. You could turn it into fun, you give him "lessons." Lol It may turn out to be wonderful! Good luck.

I like someone on my level or more experienced. Preferably, they would have experience doing things I haven't, and vice versa. But it's not like it's a big deal one way or the other.

I definitely want them on my level. Inexperienced and experienced doesn't always mesh well. It can be a real turn on knowing that no one else has done what you're doing or will being doing with your partner, but it can also cause problems if the inexperienced one doesn't want to have sex or do anything sexual at all. It's not a deal breaker necessarily, but it can put a real stumper on the relationship.

I don't mind people on my own level, but I think I've had a variety of men (from the total virgins to the reasonably experienced) and I can see a downside to any of them.

The inexperienced guys can be very hesitant, and much more prone to the "do you mind if I do this?" questions DURING sex. (Oh jeez, just do it already and shut the hell up!) I don't like feeling like I'm scary.

The more experienced guys can get a bit stuck on the "all women like this" thing, just because the majority they've met will be into that. Maybe I'm not like other women. I'd rather meet someone who can take me as I am, and be willing to learn how to make my body work. Everyone can learn something.

I've always been attracted to more experienced men in general, just because they tend to be more confident (and I think I'm a very impatient teacher). And the more experienced I become, the more important it is to meet people who are at least at my own level. I suspect that some less-experienced men will tend to look upon my previous relationships as though those men were still in the room, and that can make them nervous. Get over it. Accept that I'm not a nun (and I don't expect you to have been a monk either) and let's just have some fun together in the here and now.

To put it simply, my husband is less experienced. Although we've been together a long while, we still haven't done half the things I've done with other men. He was a virgin (completely a virgin, no hj, no bj, etc.) when I got with him and I was the one to take his purity ring hahaha. I actually like being more experienced and I think everytime we try something new, even if it's a toy or just a position, he gets this look like I'm just WOWing him and I love it.

Someone on my level or maybe a little bit more.