i could never date a compulsive liar.

That's tough...std or liar...I went with liar though cause if he lied I'd never find out about the std.

Yep, exactly what I was thinking. Someone who lies is just going to make every possible dealbreaker even worse and be a danger.



My partner and I actually both still live with our parents, but we're both still in college. I'm grateful they're letting me stay because I could not afford to go to school otherwise, even $150 more a month for a room in a meth-house would break me - my tuition is $600/mo at the moment and I only make $800/mo, in order to move out I'd have to drop out.

So many of my co-workers have apartments they can't afford (they make what I do, pay tuition AND try to pay $400/mo rent), and while it's great to be free and out, their credit scores are getting murdered since they can't afford all their bills every month and they're probably screwing themselves in the long-run.

no liars please!

I'm at a point I can't deal with liars anymore but an std is a deal breaker.

I hate lying, but actually the "deal breaker" for me was going out on a first date, ages ago. When he excused himself (we went to the movies) to go to the men's room, he did not know I followed a moment later to go to the ladies room. When I came out, in the otherwise abandoned back lobby of this multiplex, there was a frosted glass kind of partition...sort of shoulder height between the exit from the men's and ladies room. Since there was a light fixture on the side he was on, he couldn't see though that glass, but I could see towards his side just fine...and watched him picking his nose....and EATING IT. I was SO, SO, SO, SO grossed out. I would have left right then, but HE had the car.

SO....when we got back to our seats, I "suddenly" wanted NO popcorn, thank you. Wanted NO candy..thank you. Wanted NO holding of hands, thank you.

When I got back in his car, I said I was feeling really sick and could he take me RIGHT home, PLEASE (he thankfully did) and even on the way home I was grossed out touching ANYTHING in his car!!!! He tried calling me for days after that, and I didn't know how to get him to "go away"...but thankfully he, and his habit, eventually gave up.

YES, that, for ME was a MAJOR deal breaker. My stomach still churns thinking about this 42 years later!!!!!!!

How about..."HE'S MARRIED"?

Hum...so many people here said "liars" were their BIG turn off. SO...what if someone were TRUTHFUL, and admitted to being a chronic liar????? WHAT THEN???

People are more willing to accept an STD than lying?! Shocked.