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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Do you like your men educated? Not in a sexual way (well, maybe... lol!) but as far as general knowledge and education.
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Yes, I like smart men
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No, I don't like smart men
I like a man for other reasons
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Other
DeliciousSurprise , Lavender*Moon , LeeBee
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Total votes: 133 (113 voters)
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Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
I like them smart as long as they don't have big egos to go with their big IQs

~M
08/16/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Do you like your men educated? Not in a sexual way (well, maybe... lol!) but as far as general knowledge and education.
thata not the only thing I look for...I mean,I dont go after dumbasses!he has to be somewhat educated..but I look at other things!
08/16/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I LOVE smart - however I don't necessarily equate smart with formally educated. Some of the smartest people I know have only a HS diploma and I know some very unintelligent people with college degrees.
08/16/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
Intelligence is a major turn on!
08/16/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Formal education doesn't necessarily mean anything really. I like a guy who can figure most things out on his own but doesn't go around like he's smarter or better than everybody else. Somebody who thinks that my college education doesn't count because it was from a community college doesn't deserve my time, whether it be for a relationship or as a friend.
08/16/2011
Contributor: LaLaLouise LaLaLouise
My sweetie doesn't have a college education (in fact, he dropped out of high school and later got his GED, but I think this was more because of how much he got picked on for his slight stutter and how singled out he felt), but he is very smart. I'm attracted to nerds to be completely honest, and he fits the bill. Rebuilding computer, reading comic books, playing video games (not that comic books and video games make him smarter, but they do make him nerdy )
08/16/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
I like a smart man but that doesn't necessarily mean college educated. My mechanic/handyman is smart and super useful
08/16/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Intelligent is definitely a must for me.
08/16/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by Alan & Michele
I like them smart as long as they don't have big egos to go with their big IQs

~M
Exactly! And as others have said, it isn't just formal education that makes you smart. So it's not like you must have X amount of schooling, just being generally a thinking, reasoning person who can figure things out and think about stuff in a logical way. But no big ego! Being smart doesn't make you better than anyone else. Arrogance is a huge turn off.
08/16/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Brains are a must for me. But a total head person is also not for me. Balance....
08/16/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
I like men I can hold conversations with, not just "how was your day" or "They won the game 6 to 4." Gah! I can't stand sports talk. I like educated men who can talk to me about interesting things as well as fuck my brains out. I'm greedy.
08/16/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I am highly educated and I find I can't have a decent conversation with a man who is not, at least somewhat, also educated.
08/16/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Do you like your men educated? Not in a sexual way (well, maybe... lol!) but as far as general knowledge and education.
I've always been attracted to intelligent men
08/16/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Do you like your men educated? Not in a sexual way (well, maybe... lol!) but as far as general knowledge and education.
I am above average on the intelligence tests and was in gifted classes way back when... I need a man I can carry on an intelligent conversation with, who is at my level and also can make me laugh. I have a tendency to be way too serious and need that bit of humor to loosen up and get goofy, but I also get very bored with people less intelligent.
08/16/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Absolutely. My man is a scientist (actually, that was his unintentional pick-up line when I met him, "Hey, I'm a scientist.") and it makes me real proud. It's super sexy.
08/16/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
Quote:
Originally posted by Tart
I like men I can hold conversations with, not just "how was your day" or "They won the game 6 to 4." Gah! I can't stand sports talk. I like educated men who can talk to me about interesting things as well as fuck my brains out. I'm greedy.
Me too!

I agree that you don't have to have a formal education to be smart and well-informed, but it certainly doesn't hurt.
08/16/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Do you like your men educated? Not in a sexual way (well, maybe... lol!) but as far as general knowledge and education.
I require that my man and I be able to have intelligent discussions! I don't mind if we have the same level of intelligence, are educated in different areas, but if I can't talk to him, he isn't worth my time!
08/16/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
smart men are very sexy as long as they're not arrogant about it.
08/18/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
One thing I ADORE about my man is his intelligence. I love smarts, but a man who thinks he's above everyone because he's smart is a sure turn off. I don't like to be corrected on every single thing.
08/18/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I only go for smart sophisticated men! Other guys just don't do it for me.
08/18/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I love a smart man.
As long as he doesn't act like a know it all, and try to show off with it or something.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by GravyCakes
smart men are very sexy as long as they're not arrogant about it.
Arrogance is actually a sign of intelligence.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Rhinobaby Rhinobaby
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Do you like your men educated? Not in a sexual way (well, maybe... lol!) but as far as general knowledge and education.
A brain is such a fucking turn on
12/04/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Do you like your men educated? Not in a sexual way (well, maybe... lol!) but as far as general knowledge and education.
I do.
12/04/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I honestly don't think I'd have the patience to date someone who was uneducated or... well, stupid. I need an intellectual connection with my partner as well as sexual.
12/04/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Seems like a very silly question. I mean, are there actually people that look for idiots as partners? And if so, why?
12/11/2011
Contributor: karay123 karay123
He has to be smart enough to carry on an intellectual conversation...
12/11/2011
Contributor: mandaj mandaj
my husband doesn't have the greatest book smarts, but he is great at math...and common sense is a little more important to me. if i have anything wrong with my car i know my husband can fix it or if somethng breaks in the house i know i can count on him to figure it out and i love tht about him
12/11/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I like men to be smart but not so smart that every conversation revolves around his knowledge of even the most insignificant things. Smart men with egos are very irritating to me and no one really likes a know-it-all.
12/11/2011