I voted blow him off. Why? a) I am in a relationship and headed towards getting engaged by summer. b) I have had some bad bad bad relationships (unhealthy more so than like abusive or something) and c) any guy who walked away from me has been regretting it a long ass time and it would almost be sad if they came back AGAIN.
If a guy from your past came back into your life would you give them a second chance
12/10/2012
It depends on the situation. I was about to say I have given exes chances in the past, but not totally. I have gone back to an ex for hooking up, but never for a relationship again.
12/16/2012
I'd blow him off. Would you rather him think that you've been waiting around for two years, still interested in him after all this time, and that the way he treated you in the past was acceptable? Who cares why he did it. Blowing someone off without explanation, knowing full well that they are into you isn't the decent thing to do, especially if they're going to show up out of the blue ages later and act like nothing happened. Trust me, he'll do it again if he feels like it, because he knows he can. Just move on. Plenty of other fish in the sea.
12/28/2012
Totally depends on the guy and the situation. Did he 'blow you off' because he was dating someone else? Or what? What's different now? Are you really into him or just curious? Usually it's better to keep it moving, but if he blew you off for reasons that don't apply anymore and if you're really into him, then it might be worth a shot. I would definitely let him do all the work for some time. If his interest flags again, move on.
12/28/2012
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Nope
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Secret Pleasure
So i was talking to this guy like two years ago we had a great connection we never met just talked but i really liked nhim then out of the blue he just blew me off and we didnt talk again until he contacted me today after 2 years. this is a guy i
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So i was talking to this guy like two years ago we had a great connection we never met just talked but i really liked nhim then out of the blue he just blew me off and we didnt talk again until he contacted me today after 2 years. this is a guy i really did like but im scared of getting hurt again what would you do?
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12/28/2012
There are a few guys from my past I would take back but also a lot I would never take back
12/28/2012
Blow him off. As for me, I wouldn't give any guys from my past the time of day. They're in the past for a reason.
12/28/2012
Two years is a long time. It's worth a try, just don't get too attached
12/28/2012
I've ended all my relationships and no.
I don't do back and forth when I end something it's permanent.
I don't do back and forth when I end something it's permanent.
12/29/2012
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I would blow him off the same way that he blew me off. Karma is a B****
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
So i was talking to this guy like two years ago we had a great connection we never met just talked but i really liked nhim then out of the blue he just blew me off and we didnt talk again until he contacted me today after 2 years. this is a guy i
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So i was talking to this guy like two years ago we had a great connection we never met just talked but i really liked nhim then out of the blue he just blew me off and we didnt talk again until he contacted me today after 2 years. this is a guy i really did like but im scared of getting hurt again what would you do?
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12/29/2012
I think people can change, but I would never go back to any of my exs. Forgive, but don't forget.
12/30/2012
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blow him off. its not worth it.
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
So i was talking to this guy like two years ago we had a great connection we never met just talked but i really liked nhim then out of the blue he just blew me off and we didnt talk again until he contacted me today after 2 years. this is a guy i
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more
So i was talking to this guy like two years ago we had a great connection we never met just talked but i really liked nhim then out of the blue he just blew me off and we didnt talk again until he contacted me today after 2 years. this is a guy i really did like but im scared of getting hurt again what would you do?
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01/02/2013
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Its worth a look if you were really interested in him but remember he blew you off once.
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
So i was talking to this guy like two years ago we had a great connection we never met just talked but i really liked nhim then out of the blue he just blew me off and we didnt talk again until he contacted me today after 2 years. this is a guy i
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more
So i was talking to this guy like two years ago we had a great connection we never met just talked but i really liked nhim then out of the blue he just blew me off and we didnt talk again until he contacted me today after 2 years. this is a guy i really did like but im scared of getting hurt again what would you do?
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02/12/2013
I think it all hinges on the specific circumstances. There have been guys in my past that I have had second chances with. Taking a guy back has not gone well. Be careful...
03/04/2013
It would depend on the guy and what he did, but probably not.
03/05/2013
Depends on the guy and if I am single
03/05/2013
(I'm a lesbian) It depends on the girl, but all of my exes hurt me pretty badly, so no. I hold no grudges and I'm friends with most of them, but they'll never be my lovers again.
03/28/2013
I think the past should stay in the past.
03/28/2013
this isn't a very... wide... range of options, I guess I'll just not vote and say "other". I "blew off" the last guys for a reason, I have no interest in "rekindling" anything with them. Yes people make mistakes and I'm friends with one of my ex's, but the others I want nothing to do with.
03/28/2013
It would greatly depend on the situation that caused us to break up/ drift apart. While people do make mistakes and learn from them, there is also a point for me where while I may be able to forgive the guy or girl but that the trust has been so badly damaged that it can't be repaired.
If you feel that things can be worked out, and that the possible results are well worth the effort then by all means go for it.
If you feel that things can be worked out, and that the possible results are well worth the effort then by all means go for it.
04/01/2013
It depends on the guy. I think we all make mistakes, and it might be that you need more information. Move slowly, get more information and go with your gut.
04/01/2013
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