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How long do you wait before sex?

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Contributor: Teddixox Teddixox
I think it just depends on your chemistry and level of trust.
03/06/2012
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Back in my single day id wait atleast till i felt i knew the dude
09/04/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Pretty early on for me
09/04/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
It depends on the people involved.
09/07/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
i would pick 'other' if it were an option.
i don't set a number, just whatever feels right.
09/07/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
I was never really a dater. I'd just hang out, not really go on dates. But for normal date logic, 3 or more.
09/10/2012
Contributor: Squirtz Starz Squirtz Starz
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Originally posted by jenn g
Do you think it is important to wait before sex?
i think that some people need to close their legs! OMG lets play risk the game but with std's wow I think you should wait for the right person.
09/10/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by jenn g
Do you think it is important to wait before sex?
Back in my single, younger days, the first or second date was pretty common with me. I'm married now, and we were together almost 2 yrs before we had sex. We didn't live together until we got married, and then IT WAS ON!!!!
09/10/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by chicken12
Actually . . I'm a virgin and I plan to stay that way until marriage.


Or at the very least, months/years into a relationship.
That's fantastic!! GOOD FOR YOU!!
09/10/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
Depends on the situation. But I've went from one stands to a week or so waiting! I'm quite open
09/14/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
depends on the person but I have no problem with first date
09/14/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
It depends on the situation for me. A one night stand is one thing, but if you're trying to get into a relationship, I'd wait longer.
09/14/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by jenn g
Do you think it is important to wait before sex?
I have no problem with 1st or 2nd date
09/19/2012
Contributor: Princess Zelda Princess Zelda
I would wait for about 2-3 months of ongoing dating.
09/22/2012
Contributor: mammas place mammas place
Quote:
Originally posted by jenn g
Do you think it is important to wait before sex?
you want to wait for at least two dates if you see a future in the guy. Just my opinion though.
09/22/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
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Originally posted by jenn g
Do you think it is important to wait before sex?
I put 1st or 2nd because I don't have a problem with that. Sometimes its 1st date, sometimes its not but all depends on the person. However, I usually meet people online so we talk days or weeks before meeting; I don't really consider the 1st date "the first" in that case So I just do whatever feels right!
09/23/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
I waited 3 months my first time
09/23/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by jenn g
Do you think it is important to wait before sex?
All depends on the person and the situation.
10/27/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I'm fine with any of these.
10/27/2012
Contributor: Pink Lily Pink Lily
Other would be best. It really depends on the situation, how well I know him, how much I trust him, how well the evening went...the list goes on.
11/16/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
I wait as long as I want to. If I don't want to sleep with someone, I don't. If I want to, I ask them and go from there.
11/16/2012
Contributor: justme23 justme23
Whenever it feels right
11/30/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
At least 3, just depends
02/16/2013
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by jenn g
Do you think it is important to wait before sex?
I have no problem with 1st or 2nd date
02/16/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
Depends on the person & situation.
02/17/2013